You Can’t Change Others, You Can Only Change Yourself


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I’m so sick of whining men..

They want to tell me how they are “forced into loneliness”..

They are “involuntarily celebate”..

They’ve “taken the red pill”..

They are “going their own way”..

No matter what they label themselves, it seems to always come down to them bitching about women, society, etc..

They demand that the world changes for them..

NEWSFLASH… it ain’t gonna happen!

No one’s lining up outside your house eagerly hoping to get past the red velvet rope to enter your pitty party..

I’m not trying to devalue your situation..

I agree with many of your assertions..

I just don’t think the rest of society today cares about the plight of the heterosexual man..

Your time is better spent evaluating how things are.. and then determining what YOU can change in yourself to take advantage of the current situation..

It’s not easy changing yourself..

It’s much easier blaming others and demanding they change..

Life is about constantly evaluating how things are changing around you.. and then figuring out how to change yourself to adapt..

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RSD Julien Blanc Got Married


Wow, Real Social Dynamics is in a real transition lately…

They deleted their RSDNation message boards months ago…

And now they are deleting videos, distanced themselves from “men’s dating advice”, and eliminating the uniform “RSD” titles from all their YouTube and social media accounts…

Amongst all this, Julien Blanc got married… Yes, THAT Julien Blanc!

Remember “RSD Julien”? The guy who seemed jealous of RSD Jeffy AKA Jeff Allen AKA JLAIX’s whole “van” drama with Jezebel.. so he wanted to create his own…

Well, he got what he was looking for a few years back. Remember the whole Julien Blanc “shoving Japanese girls’s in his crotch” kerfuffle of 2014? How about the cringe-inducing CNN Chris Cuomo “apology”?

After that, Julien layed low for some time. Then they distanced him from “RSD” by having him give more general self-help advice rather than “pickup artist advice”. His new YouTube channel was called “JulienHimself”.

Meanwhile, RSD Tyler AKA Owen Cook seemed to play the victim card when speaking about the media’s handling of it all.. even though his employee was seemingly asking for a fight. It would be like talking shit to Conor McGregor over social media and then whining after he punches you in the face when you finally meet in-person. I fucking loathe the media, but I also loathe people in the dating industry who seemingly do obnoxious shit to get attention.. and then try to play the victim card afterwards. They are a big part of why the whole “male dating advice industry” gets a bad rap.

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Bill Burr Claims Male Feminists Are Pathetic, Limp Dicks Trying To Get Pussy in His New Netflix “Paper Tiger” Special


Netflix creates some of the most polictically correct shows and movies there are. Then they put out stand-up specials where popular comedians rip on polictically correct culture. It’s kind of f*cked up if you ask me.

Netflix’s most recent comedy special is Bill Burr’s “Paper Tiger”. This comes just weeks after their last conroversial Dave Chappelle “Sticks and Stones” comedy special.

“Paper Tiger” dropped early this morning. I haven’t had a chance to watch it. But some quotes from it are already making waves on Twitter. Here’s one about male feminists.

“Anytime I hear a guy say ‘I’m a male feminist’, I always just think,’ that is the most pathetic, limp-dick way ever to try and get some pussy’. Right?”

I’m guessing his assertion is that the majority of male feminists are such for “ulterior motives”. They’re not doing it primarily because they feel that women are not proportionately represented. They are doing it because they think it will get them “points” from women.

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Simple Pickup is Officially Dead - Kong Deletes All Their Videos


It’s official, SimplePickup is no more! The successful YouTube channel contained mainly hidden camera videos of Jesse Jhaj, Jason Roberts and Kong Pham approaching girls in costumes or using lines of different themes…

They haven’t made new video in several years. Before that, Jason left. Jesse and Kong seemed to move into the “make money online” advice niche with their Jumpcut Academy.

Kong now says Jesse left Jumpcut a year and a half ago. There’s alledged rumors that Kong had to fire him because Jesse was butthurt because Kong either stole his girlfriend or started dating her after their breakup. There was apparently a KickStarter video and Instagram posts that backed that up, but they are all gone now and I cannot verify any of it.

Kong created a new video explaining why he deleted all the old Simple Pickup videos. He claims they were damaging to his current business.

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Sean Stephenson Death From Fall & Head Injury (Sadly Dead at 40 Years Old)


Sean StephensonSean Stephenson died at the age of 40 (May 5, 1979 - August 28, 2019). His wife said it was a result of head trauma due to a fall. They apparently unsuccessfully tried to perform surgery on him.

Sean was mentored by Tony Robbins and seemed to dabble in all areas of self-help and motivational speaking. He was also a therapist.

He was involved with the pickup artist community during its peak in the mid to late 2000’s. He published “Inner Game Magazine” and interviewed with several prominant pickup artists and dating coaches. He spoke at David Deangelo’s Double Your Dating Man’s Transformation program and was also interviewed by him. I made one blog post about him back in 2009.

More recently he appeared to be focusing on fitness, health, positivity, and was working with Joseph Gordon-Levitt at some capacity.

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