Jason Capital’s Make Women Want You is a popular dating product. It promises to give men the attraction skills needed to get girls to chase them.
If you don’t know who Jason Capital PUA is, he’s the self-proclaimed “World’s Most Controversial Seduction Expert”. He’s high energy. He uses the word “fucking” a lot. He likes to slap his hands together. He tells it how it is and pulls no punches.
Before I get into the Make Women Want You review, I suggest you open this video presentation about the program in another browser tab. Listen to it as you read my review. This will help you understand some of the stuff I reference to later.
Hayley Quinn is a female dating instructor who Ross Jeffries seems to be going ape shit over lately.
Maybe it’s because her name is just one letter off from his favorite comic book villain wet dream, HaRley Quinn.
I kid. Actually, good ol’ Ross seems to ass kiss any attractive female dating coach who hops on the scene.
I digress. Any way, here’s a video of Harley Quinn… I mean Hayley Quinn… talking about how guys creep girls out when they approach and pursue them:
Here’s a quick Saturday Night Live skit called “Flirty”. It’s about “two neighbors struggle to find the right words to tell each other how they feel.”
It starts off slow with a “chick flick” vibe, but has a harsh “reality check” at the end:
Approach anxiety is a condition where people (usually men) get nervous about talking to unfamiliar members of the opposite sex. They rationalize in their head why they SHOULDN’T approach the girl or guy. For example, “she’s probably got a boyfriend”.
It can severely inhibit their dating and sex life.
So how can you STOP approach anxiety?
Popular pickup artist Mystery advocates using the “3 Second Rule”. The 3 Second Rule is to approach a girl within 3 seconds of seeing her. This prevents your brain from having enough time to make excuses to not approach.
There is psychology backing Mystery’s 3 Second Rule. Psychologists recommend doing the things that you fear as fast as possible and without thinking. The more you hesitate, the lesser the chance you will do it.
Does your ego keep you from succeeding with women? Does it prevent you from making friends?
Egocentrism is a real bitch. I can’t count how many times I’ve pissed on my own leg by letting my ego get the best of me.
Everyone is self-centered. Every man wants their ego stroked. But there’s a real shift as guys go from chump to champ.
They start off as the puppy dog. They constantly seek attention & approval. They want their head scratched and their belly rubbed by others. Their self-esteem is low and they need the attention of others to build it back up.
Unfortunately, this makes them very unattractive to women. To be their friend is a thankless job. These ‘chumps’ are demanding but offer little in return.
But as these guys improve their social skills and self-esteem, they turn from a follower to the leader. Their self-worth is high and they no longer need the approval of others.