Learn to become comfortable in all situations no matter how messed up they seem to you

I couldn’t have handled some of the situations that I have been in with women lately when I was in high school. I would have been embarrassed, shy, or uncomfortable.

I was born in a religious family in the country and I lived a sheltered childhood. I spent my Friday nights playing Nintendo and listening to the radio.

When I was in high school my school consolidated with another school and I became friends with one of the new students. He went to parties every weekend and convinced me to go to one. I was totally apprehensive about going but I lied to my parents and went with him any way.

What I saw blew me away. I saw people I had classes with drinking alcohol, getting into fights, smoking weed and watching pornos and Faces of Death. I couldn’t handle it! I decided to go to the bathroom to try to get my composure and found one of the jocks fucking one of the cheerleaders doggystyle over the toilet.

Others saw that I was visibly uncomfortable and took it as an opportunity to have fun with me. Some of the girls shit tested me and I failed with flying colors. They grilled me with sexual questions that made be stutter awkwardly.

I left the party shell-shocked. I wanted to crawl into the fetal position and suck my thumb.

That night was one of the most important nights of my life. It took me a few days but I went from thinking that everyone at that party was crazy and deranged to accepting the fact that I was the one who was crazy. Initially I didn’t want to go to another party again but a few days later I changed my mind and decided I was going to go to the next party and I wasn’t going to let anything faze me.

When I showed up they started testing me immediately. I took the beers they gave me and chugged them like a pro. I smoked my first cigarette. When girls grilled me with sex questions I turned the tables and threw them right back at them.

I had a lot of fun that night. I partially went from being a boy to a man.

Since then I’ve heard some of the strangest stuff come out of womens mouths to try to get a reaction from me but it never works. I’ve had girls make unusual requests in the bed that would be illegal when my parents were my age but I think nothing of it. I have guys brag to me about shit and try to impress me but it doesn’t. I’ve saw the most graphic videos and yawned.

I considered my threshold unreachable up until someone tried to show me the online viral video sensation called “2 Girls 1 Cup”. I heard enough about it to know I didn’t want to see girls eating their own shit and puking it on each other. For that matter, I also do not care to see the BME Pain Olympics video either.

The weird thing is that it bugs me that I won’t watch them. If I watched them I would probably be repulsed for a few hours but I would get over it and my threshold for fucked-up shit would be raised even higher.

Being successful with women is not for those with a weak stomach. Ballet would be a better area to study if you are a wuss bag.

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