Be glad you don’t live in China

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A couple weeks ago I made a post about how where you live is not a valid excuse when it comes to not being successful with women.

I guess I have to add China as an exception.

I was watching a CBC documentary on China’s sexual revolution and I have to say that I’m glad I do not live in China.

In China you can only have one kid. Everyone wanted their one kid to be a boy. If they find out by ultrasound that their child is going to be a girl many of them choose to have an abortion.

Because of this guys now out number women five to one in the bigger cities. This means that many guys have to resort to prostitution in order to satisfy their sexual needs. The government realizes that logistically it is the only option so it accepts it.

I’m glad that I live in the US where the ratio of men to women is about 1-to-1. I can go out and meet a woman and get laid without resorting to paying for it. In fact, in many cases giving women gifts and buying them drinks is counter productive.

You are blessed to be living where you are and to be given the opportunities that exist there. Quit whining and making excuses and start taking advantage of them!

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  • Bobby Rio
    November 19th, 2007 at 5:23 pm

    No joke Mack,

    in brazil its the complete opposite…the ration in brazil is like 3-1 girls. Because the native Brazilain guys are spoiled and refuse to settle down until they are older …the women seek foreign men for romance.

    So while we may have it worse off in China, there are places out there that beat us.

    But ultimately if you don’t have the skills to get laid in the states… you won’t get laid in Brazil (without paying)

  • Mack Tight
    November 20th, 2007 at 3:48 am

    Then why don’t you move to Rio?

    I went through the same situation Bobby, but my Rio was Orlando.

    I went down there as a tourist. I fucked some incredibly hot women. Overall the women seemed hotter than they were in Milwaukee.

    I actually took the next step and moved to Orlando. It was much different living and looking for a job there than it was being on a binge-drinking vacation there throwing money around.

    The cost of living was the same but the jobs paid far less. I found Orlando to be much “grittier” than Wisconsin. The people down there might have been overall better looking but they had much more “issues”.

    The experience opened my eyes. There are just as hot of women in Wisconsin as there are in Florida. There may be fewer but the ones that exist are still out there waiting for a guy with the right game to pick them up. I am that guy.

    The company I work for has a branch in Brazil. Many of my colleagues have spent considerable time in the non-tourist areas of Brazil. I have spoke with my Brazil colleagues when they visit the US. I’m quite sure that if you moved to Brazil it would be much different than it is to you when you go down there for a week on business or a vacation.

  • Vedran
    November 20th, 2007 at 6:01 pm

    That’s it fellas, I’m moving to Shanghai.

  • Bobby Rio
    November 20th, 2007 at 6:09 pm

    Hey man, I was just making a point about the ratio difference from China but now that you mentioned it…

    I’ve lived in many places.. having studied abroad in europe and going to south america every winter..

    i don’t go there for the women. I get more than my share of women in the states… i go there because i love the life style. I used to love spain and portugal but the Euro killed the fun there.

    I’m not anti america or anything… but i do plan on moving down to brazil for a period of time to do some writing when my site hits that magic number that will allow such an adventure.. that was the purpose of the last trip- to look at property to invest in- although im looking at fortaleza as the ROI will be much better.

    And Mack, I’m by no means no knocking Orlando… but Rio de Janeiro is a whole nother planet.

  • Mack Tight
    November 21st, 2007 at 10:19 am


    I understand your point and I do agree with it.

    You basically said just as there is always a better looking girl and a smarter person; there are always places with better situations than where you are at now.

    I agree that you should be constantly looking for a better place to live at just as you should keep sending out your resume looking for a better job. Never being content at where you are at now is a key to further success.

    But with that being said, as long as you live where you do now the fact that there is surely a better location is irrelevant. Make the best of where you are at now and quit using it as an excuse to not try or give up. You can be successful where you are and as Bobby stated in his original comment; if you have not developed the skills to be successful where you are at now then you probably have not developed the skills to be successful at where you plan to move.

    Get out there and sarge and quit using excuses to procrastinate!

  • Seb
    February 9th, 2008 at 9:31 am

    Virtually all men pay for sex, either directly (prostitution) or indirectly (cost of taxi fares to get to bars),cost of alcohol etc.

    Very few men (eg. Rock Stars and Movie Stars) get sex for free.

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