If you want to hold the attention of your audience, you need to keep your thoughts brief.
We’ve become an ADHD society with an attention span of 140 characters or less. It’s critical to trim the fat and get to your point sooner than later.
For practice, type up your answer to the question “what problems do you have with dating women?”
Did you write a paragraph… or a 400-page novel?
Go through it and eliminate the following:
1.) Duplicate thoughts
2.) Unnecessary words
3.) Anything that deviates from the main topic
How many words were you able to eliminate and still get your point across?
Often we throw in words in an attempt to impress people. Instead, they just annoy and bore.
Put yourself in the shoes of the person you are speaking to. Is what you’re saying interesting to THEM?
If it isn’t, you either need to switch subjects or talk to someone else.
Finally, being a bullshiter will get you far if you are entertaining. But there is nothing worse than a BORING person who is full of themselves.
I know, because I’ve been guilty of all of the above
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