I’ve found that there’s a handful of conversational topics that always get a good reception from whoever you’re speaking to.
These typically involve talking positively about…
1.) Family/Friends/Loved ones
These topics are great because people of every age and demographic can relate to them and typically find them intriguing.
If you’re a single guy looking to pickup women, you can’t go wrong talking about your positive traveling adventures. Set down in front of your computer and write up 5 traveling stories. Try telling them to female friends to see their reactions. Keep the two stories that get the best response and tell them whenever you get the chance.
I know traveling is expensive, but you should still be able to afford going somewhere new at least once per year. I usually go to a new country every two years. On the off years, I visit a new domestic city or state.
If you’re just out of college, pick a job that allows you to travel. That way you’re traveling on the company’s dime and killing two birds with one stone.
If you have friends who have moved to an interesting area, take full advantage of it and go visit them. They can show you around and hook you up. For example, a couple years ago I visited a friend who was teaching English in Japan. His knowledge of the culture, area and language made the trip much more enjoyable.
The more I’ve traveled, the more I’ve realized the world is a big melting pot. I’ve also become less anxious exiting my comfort zone. Go out there and see the world! You’ll be left with exciting stories you can tell to others for the rest of your life.
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