David Wygant on Body Language

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Here’s a video of David Wygant speaking about reading a girls’ body language…

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In typical David Wygant fashion, he’s all over the place in this video…

But let me list two key points it seems like he is trying to make in this video…

And why I TOTALLY DISAGREE with what he is saying…

1) “Real Men” do not try to read a girl’s body language, nor do they care about it

This is simply a DUMBASS statement…

Calibration is the FOUNDATION for getting better with women…

Basically, you’re tweaking what you are doing and trying new things based on the results that you are getting…

So how do you know if what you are doing is working?

Basically, there are going to be OBVIOUS signs (you get laid, she’s taking the initiative to contact you first, etc)…

Then, there’s the SUBTLE feedback… like reading her BODY LANGUAGE!

To imply that a guy is wasting his time by being aware of a girls body language is completely ASININE!

For example, body language is OFTEN the golden signal to sexually escalate physically with a girl…

I mean, she’ll very seldom actually TELL YOU directly to do it outside of a relationship…

If you are completely oblivious to body language and yet still get laid on a regular basis… you’re probably a rapist!

At the end of this post, I’ll share MY OPINION on what point David should be REALLY trying to make in this video…

2) You cannot read a woman’s mind, so don’t bother trying to guess what she’s thinking

Let me be completely honest with you…

If I was paying a “dating coach” to help me… and I asked him to give me his opinion on what a girl was thinking based on a past situation… and he basically said:

“Hey man, I’m not a MIND READER! If I was, I’d be rich… and then I wouldn’t be hanging with you!”…

…I’d get myself a DIFFERENT “dating coach” IMMEDIATELY!

Good ol’ David Wygant would be left speaking to my BREEZE…

I have a guy who I coach by phone…

He regularly tells me about situations that he’s had with women…

I give him my impression on what the girl was thinking and what he should do next…

He does what I say, and it practically ALWAYS works out well for him…

(He KEEPS calling me for advice, so it’s pretty obvious my advice is giving him good results…)

Recognizing PATTERNS is the foundation for excelling in ANY complex social interaction…

For example, how can you tell if someone is “lying” to you?

You can’t read their mind, can you?

But you CAN recognize patterns & characteristics from your past experiences to draw a conclusion…

And most of the time, you’re RIGHT ABOUT IT!

Sure, these patterns are never 100% consistent… they may also change… and it’s true, you CANNOT read anybody’s mind…

But to excel socially… you need to be able to READ people and understand what they are LOOKING FOR…

…Then you calibrate accordingly!

To just throw your hands up and say you can’t read minds is a total COP OUT!

Seriously, what good are you as a “dating coach” if you aren’t willing to give advice unless you already know what the absent party is thinking?

* So What Point Should David Wygant Really Be Trying To Make? *

It’s simple…

Don’t always assume the “negative” and use it as an excuse to not TAKE ACTION…

I see this ALL THE TIME with guys, especially those with high anxiety issues…

They build up the balls to go talk to a girl… and then they just set there trying to pick out some body gesture or phrase that they can infer as being “negative” towards them…

Then they just give up and leave… or don’t bother calling the girl when they *DO* get her number…

A girl WILL let you know if she is not interested or doesn’t want to talk to you…

She’ll probably go to the bathroom and not come back or not answer your phone call…

Hang in there… a lot of the “tests” and comments that I perceived as negative five years ago were actually POSITIVE…

The difference between successful men and unsuccessful men regarding body language is NOT that unsuccessful men waste their time worrying about it while successful men blow it off…

It’s that a successful man has the tendency to perceive actions as being POSITIVE but still calibrate… while an unsuccessful man has the tendency to perceive actions as NEGATIVE & flee…

It’s casual,

Mack Tight

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  • David
    February 3rd, 2011 at 4:36 pm

    Haha that’s a really bad video. Guys paid how many thousand for this guy!?

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