Does Jay Cutler Have Social Anxiety?

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I really hate “dating coaches” who try to draw cryptic correlations between picking up women and sports (or any piece of pop culture for that matter…)

You know, they make stupid blog posts about how you should run your dating life like the New York Jets… “be confident, be aggressive” blah, blah, blah…

YAWN!!!!………….

That being said, I’m going to tie Jay Cutler with anxiety and social skills (I’m a total hypocrite, I know :-) …)

I personally have NOTHING against Jay Cutler, but lets be honest:

People do NOT like Jay Cutler…

Because of that, he took a LOT of heat this past weekend from Bear’s fans, the media, and his fellow athletes for going out of Sunday’s game with a torn MCL…

I think the problem is LESS about the injury, and MORE about the way Jay Cutler acts (and thus is “perceived”)….

Here’s some observations I’ve made about Jay…

* doesn’t smile much
* avoids direct eye contact
* poor speaker
* laxidasical body language

He just comes off as a listless, meek, blah guy with no vigor…

That’s not a good way to come off in life… ESPECIALLY if you are in the media spotlight and play a tough-man’s sport like American Football!

You are NOT going to be given the “benefit of the doubt” when you’re perceived that way…

The same goes for YOU…

Those four traits above are the same for most guys I see who suffer from “social anxiety”…

(and for the record, “approach anxiety” is just a more specific niche of social anxiety if you ask me)…

Women are not going to be attracted to you… Guys are not going to want to be friends with you…

Your shyness is perceived as arrogance, disinterest, and rudeness… even though IN YOUR HEAD, that is NOT what you are thinking…

Your social, sex and professional life are all going to be hindered until you get it all “turner around”…

Take it from a guy who spinned his wheels in this whole “seduction community” for countless years trying to learn the new flashy “magic pickup bullet”…

My REAL PROBLEM that I needed to address FIRST was my “anxiety” issues!

If you suffer from anxiety… check this video of mine out right now…

I’ve went through it all, I’m here to help…

It’s casual,

Mack Tight

PS: Here’s a video of an interview with Jay where he says “you know” 57 times in 6 minutes…

I can’t cast stones, I have a tendency to fall back on “filler words” during interviews myself…

UPDATE: Someone let me know that Jay Cutler is dating Kristin Cavallari of “Laguna Beach: The Real Orange County” and its spin-off “The Hills”…

Dude must be doing something right! :-)




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