Don’t Be Afraid To Date An Average Girl and Upgrade Later

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When coaching guys who are single and inexperienced with women… I find that they are incredibly picky about the girls who they would consider dating…

She can’t smoke…
She can’t have kids…
She’s got to have big boobs…

The requirements are unrealistically stringent considering their lack of skills and experience…

Here’s what I think their problem is…

They assume that any girl they date has to be their dream girl… because she will become his girlfriend, they’ll move in together and get married…

That’s thinking way too far ahead and keeps them from gaining much needed experience…

That experience gives them the skills and confidence needed to land their dream girl…

I always say “you’ve got to crack a few eggs to make an omelette”…

So if you are not currently dating any girls… lower your standards…

Once you’re dating a girl, you can always look for something better…

You might think that this idea of “trading up” sounds male chauvinistic… but it’s really not…

Women do it all the time… they are usually never “single” and often jump from boyfriend to boyfriend…

So my point is:

1. Just because you date a girl doesn’t mean you’re going to eventually settle down with her…

2. Dating a girl that doesn’t meet your standards is better than dating no girls…

It’s okay to say “I’m all about quality, not quantity” when you are sleeping with a quality girl on a regular basis…

But if you are going home alone night-after-night, saying that makes you a pathetic chump…

Instead of trying to jump directly into being the alpha wolf… start out as the grass….

Get out there… get laid by whoever you can… and work yourself up the food chain from the bottom up…

It’s casual,

Mack Tight




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  • Eric Disco
    June 21st, 2012 at 3:13 pm

    Too true. The pickiest guys I’ve ever coached were virgins. It’s one of the biggest excuses to not approach women. In fact, I sometimes get caught in that trap, waiting for the perfect girl before I open. Better to go with your first attraction and find out more about her.

    Eric

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