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How To Pick Up Women On The Street

Mack Tight — Fri, 21 Nov 2008 18:55:58 +0000

Here’s a short article by Nick Shane, author of Street Smart Dating, with tips on how to do street pickups.

Notice that his “being cheeky” sure sounds a lot like David Deangelo’s “ cocky and funny“…

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How To Pick Up A Woman On The Street
by Nick Shane

I bet you see loads of women everyday that you wish you could talk to. You know…the attractive, confident and interesting type but you just know she wouldn’t even look twice at you. You may think that you would never be able to meet a girl like this because she is either out or your league or you just don’t know what to say to her … but I do and I am going to show you how you can get her number.

Lets first look at what happens when you see an attractive woman.

First, you think she is wonderful wish you had the opportunity to talk to her. Secondly, you start to think about it, get really nervous and desperately try to build up your confidence get over there and say something to her. But because you don’t really know what you should do or say, you watch the opportunity slip away as she crosses the street or drives out of sight and you wish you had gone and spoken to her…even if it was just a “Hey, what’s up?”

You must understand there is no reason for not talking to her. Attractive women have men who whistle at her and stare two holes in her ass many times each day.

Women of sheer beauty are sick of men like that…what she wants is an interesting guy that can talk to her without immediately staring at her ass or asking for her number right away.

Attractive women get ‘hit on’ and ‘asked out’ all the time, so what makes you think you can get any further if you are just like everybody else? Remember, you need to be different!

Now listen carefully: the woman you want to meet and pick up at the street corner over there already had countless nice guys come over to her in her lifetime and tell her how beautiful she looks and ask if they can have permission to talk to her. She is sick of these guys.

If you want to be successful and get her phone number you need to have a different approach. Let me show you how:

You have to think of something funny or interesting to say to her. Don’t be nice, don’t pay her a compliment and don’t tell her that “I noticed you from over there and just had to come over and talk to you”.

Everybody does that. What you need to do is push her emotional trigger buttons that create attraction. And how do you do that? By being slightly arrogant but funny at the same time…also called being CHEEKY!

All you have to do is open your mouth when you are near her or when she is just passing you … and continue talking so she stops dead in her tracks. If you get a woman’s attention, she will just look at you … but if you keep talking, she will stop right in front of you. And if you can turn up the heat by being cheeky, she will get attracted in an instant…and get hooked just like that.

So the first thing you do is say “HEY!” or “HI!”…then continue with “Hey listen … I need your female opinion about something”

This automatically disarms the “oh, not another guy” syndrome in her mind because you come off as different.

Then, you just ask her anything that will make her curious, interested and is a great platform for teasing her to get her attracted.

“HEY! … Listen, c’mere for a second. I need your female opinion about something. I’m having some difficulties here … what the hell is the difference between a G-String, and a Thong? I’m supposed to buy this pink thingy for my cousin and I have NO Idea. I think you women are deliberately trying to confuzzle us guys…”

Just keep playing, teasing and busting her balls until she says “What’s your name?” … that’s the point where you can tell a woman got attracted to you, and once that happens she is willing to give you her number if you keep it up being cheeky for another 3-5 minutes.

Being successful in the dating game is very simple … IF you know how it works

Keep it up!

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David DeAngelo’s Online Dating Tips

Mack Tight — Fri, 21 Nov 2008 03:58:07 +0000

Here’s David DeAngelo, author of Double Your Dating, answering some questions about online dating…

***QUESTION***

Hey David,

I was wondering if you could offer any wisdom on what you’ve gained from writing and responding to online personal ads. I’m not having a great deal of luck so far. Specifically, my questions are:

1. How brief should your descriptions of yourself and/or your ideal catch be? I’ve heard it said that “brevity is the soul of wit”, but you also want to be memorable, right?

2. When writing descriptions, should you stick with C&F? I’ve noticed that humor often doesn’t translate well in written form, so I wasn’t sure how to go about all that.

3. I think I read in a previous newsletter that you recommend not posting a picture. At the same time, I tend to avoid ads without pictures due to having one too many blind dates which ended with me throwing a stick and shouting “fetch!” in order to distract her long enough to get away. Don’t you think that by committing a picture on your ad, women might pass you up for the same reason? Or am I mistaken?

An apprentice,

>>>MY COMMENTS:

You’ve asked some questions that really require more of an in-depth treatment… but here are a few pointers that have taken me YEARS to figure out:

1) You’ll get more responses in general by replying to personal ads placed by women than you will by placing your own ad (Unless you’re a master of writing personal ads).

2) If you’re going to use the personals, look at the new ads that are placed daily, and respond as soon as a woman places her ad. Attractive women typically get 50-100 responses per DAY to personal ads, and it’s very easy to get overwhelmed. You’ll notice that a lot of women take their ads down after just a few days… this is why.

3) Be charming and funny (also known as COCKY and funny) in your replies (or in your ad, if you write your own). Say things like “I was looking through all these ads here on the internet thinking to myself “Look at all the poor, desperate, lonely women…” and then I saw your ad and thought to myself “Hey, here’s a poor, desperate, lonely woman that’s actually CUTE…” so I thought I’d write and see if you’re as interesting on the inside as you are in this picture…”

4) I mentioned in one of recent newsletters ( sign up for them free by clicking here) that I got an email from a guy who had his picture taken with some dolphins… and that he’s getting tons of responses from that. I’ve never done it myself, but it sounds like a great idea!

I think that the internet is a literal MIRACLE when it comes to meeting women, practicing conversations skills, and learning how to create attraction using only your words, humor, and other communication.

If you’d like to learn some of my personal secrets for turning the internet into a dating BONANZA for yourself, then take a minute to click here and find out my secrets to meeting women online…

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Spycam Seductions Rereleased by Pickup101

Mack Tight — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 18:00:28 +0000

Last year Lance Mason’s Pickup 101 released Spycam Seductions and it quickly sold out.

It is a huge 8 DVD program full of infield approaches and pickups along with commentary by Lance Mason, Sean Messenger and other Pickup101 instructors and students…

It took 3 years to film and includes 12 hours of video…

For its one year anniversary, they are re-releasing it again for only a four day period.

That means it is only available now until this Friday November 21…

Click here to check out their site for it…

Here’s a 10 minute preview video for Spycam Seductions…

In addition to the 8 DVDs, the Spycam Seductions rerelease includes 10 bonuses including DVDs, CDs and books…

Here’s a picture with everything offered in the program…

Click here to find out more about it…

Remember that it is only available until Friday and then it will not be available again, so you need to order it now…

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Mystery on Jimmy Kimmel Live

Mack Tight — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 07:05:31 +0000

Mystery was on Jimmy Kimmel Live last night to promote the new season of The Pickup Artist.

Here’s the video…

I thought Mystery kicked ass…

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How to Get Six Pack Abs Fast

Mack Tight — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 23:08:53 +0000

During the winter I’m more likely to hit the gym than ever.

The weather sucks outside and it gets dark so early that it seems to be my only viable option to exercise.

It’s good to go into the gym with a plan. Most personal trainers at health clubs are expensive and poorly educated on how to tailor a perfect diet and workout program based on your body. Often they have a “one size fits all” mentality.

That’s why John Barban, Brad Pilon and Brad Howard created the Adonis Effect program to help you out.

The Adonis Effect includes all the information you need to both burn fat and build muscle in regards to eating, cardio exercise and weight training.

In fact they take your height, waist and shoulder measurements to create your “Adonis Index”. This value is used to create the perfect program based on your proportions….

Obviously one of the biggest things men desire is the perfect six pack abs…

They desire them because women love ‘em…

The problem I have is that I don’t know how to effectively target these muscles. I usually do a hundred crunches and my back and neck end up hurting while my abs don’t feel worked out.

Well, these guys created The Adonis Crunch to fix such a problem… see the video below…

Basically they use dumbbells and crossover the body using just one hand at a time.

If you want to learn how to get in shape this winter so you look great for spring, then click here…

For the time being they are offering the entire Adonis Effect program at a 50% discount making it half off…

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David DeAngelo and Neil Strauss Interview Brad P. (audio)

Mack Tight — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 17:29:42 +0000

Brad P is the author of The Adventures of Brad P., Brad’s Fashion Bible and Planning the Perfect Date.

Here’s a short clip from David DeAngelo’s Double Your Dating Interviews with Dating Gurus with Brad P…

Here’s also a short clip of Neil Strauss interviewing Brad P…

Can’t see the audio players? Click here…

If you want to hear a longer interview with Brad P, check out my Brad P. Interview that is over an hour long…

I highly recommend Brad P…

The best place to start in regards to learning his material is his popular ebook “ The Adventures of Brad P.“…

Click here to get your copy for only $19.00…

You’ll learn about seducing women in many different settings…

This book includes beginner strategies, advanced strategies, routines, inner game concepts, and much more.

See why students are calling it “The XX version of The Game.”

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Video of November’s Infield Insider with El Topo

Mack Tight — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 04:57:55 +0000

The November edition of Mehow’s Infield Insider is out and this month it features El Topo…

I’m not familiar with El Topo but here is the video…

I’ve had many arguments with wings regarding taking pictures of girls when asked…

El Topo apparently has a routine based on it.

He says he’s a photographer…

The girls test him to see if he really is one…

He goes out of his way to prove to them he is down with camera lingo.

The girls gets bored with his camera talk and try to get him to dance…

He dances like a monkey and the girls are back to wanting their picture taken…

He then spends 5 minutes taking pictures of the girls and randomly inserting comments about sucking cock…

Apparently inserting talk about sucking cock is “Shock Sexual Seduction”…

The description for this video says that “this is one of the most titillating trailers ever produced… they (sic) way El Topo goes sexual in person is SICK.”

I cannot stress how annoying I find it when gurus call stuff “SICK”…

So did he get his cock sucked or what?!?

At the end the girl threw him a bone by opening up and saying that she was an artist which was a good sign…

I overall was impressed with El Topo…

He seemed to be a good talker and cool guy but I didn’t like the whole photographer bit…

I work with computers for a living and I’ll be DAMNED if I’m going to spend my free time in a club talking about computers to a girl…

The fact that he was supposedly a photographer by trade and he spent so much free time taking these girls pictures just seems way too accommodating to me.

I’m sure you can spin it around and say he was giving value…

But to me it seems more like buying a girl a drink and expecting something from it…

What do you think?

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A Sinn vs. David Wygant Charity Boxing Match?!?

Mack Tight — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 17:26:58 +0000

David Wygant and Sinn have been trash talking each other a lot lately…

During a recent Barry Kirkey show, David said that Sinn could not look him in the eyes like a man at the PUA Summit…

In return, Sinn has had a lot to say about David’s age, teaching style and his choice of openers…

In fact on his blog Sinn says…

“I challenge shit talking old man David Wygant to a boxing match for charity”…

Then he makes a 2Pac quote…

“Why the fuck these cowards be running too scared to fight a G?”

Wait!!!!!

He’s quoting 2Pac in relationship with a proposed charity boxing match with a dude 20 years his senior?!?!

That’s like pissing on Tupac’s grave!

Is it possible that this is just some fake beef to drum up interest for Sinn’s newly released Lay Reports Book…

Or to also help promote the upcoming David Wygant community?!?

Sinn seems quite honest but I’ve been wrong in the past…

…and Wygant sure seems like the go-to-guy for pseudo beef…

I got an idea…

How about a real fist fight if they “truly” hate each other so much!

That’s how true Gz do it when they are out of ammo…

It can take place in an alley behind a Whole Foods…

Or instead is this “charity boxing match” going to take place at an Art of Charm seminar?

…is Ross Jeffries going to be the referee?

If they conveniently hug it out afterward like Arie and E on Entourage I call “bullshit” on a G!

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How to Overcome Your Nervousness Around Women

Mack Tight — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 07:27:32 +0000

John Alexander is the author of the popular ebook “ How to Become an Alpha Male“.

Here’s an article by him on how to overcome your anxiety around women…
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Four Keys to Overcoming Your Nervousness Around Women
By John Alexander

Standing at the magazine rack thumbing through Cosmo, she has the most gorgeous face you’ve ever seen. Her hair is silky brown. Her skin looks so radiant and so incredibly soft. You would be on top of the world if you could pick her this girl up.

You feel the fear deep in your gut.

You know that even if you got your balls in gear and went for it, you wouldn’t know what to say. You feel so nervous and fumbly that you would reject yourself if you were her. So you shy away from even approaching her in the first place.

Does this situation sound familiar? If so, keep reading.

The first thing for you to realize is that all guys get anxiety about approaching women. I know I certainly do.

But what separates you (and me) from the rest of the guys is…

What You Do About Your Fear.

Most guys let fear paralyze them… not just about chicks, but about other things in their life like their career… which is why, unfortunately, most guys will never find the success that they want.

First, look at where your fear comes from. The problem is inside of you. It’s not with the chicks.

If you’re thinking about rejection, then that means you’re making your approaches with a certain outcome in mind (I’m just guessing, but I think if you’re like most guys, your goal is getting chicks attracted to you so that you can get laid).

Try this instead… approach without having any expectations. No goals.

Let me tell you about a problem I used to have. I’m inclined to be an introvert, as I discuss in my book , “ How to Become an Alpha Male”

So to overcome my shyness, I would force myself to chat up everybody, no matter who they were… hot girls, ugly girls, fat girls, old people, men, children, people walking dogs, etc.

I would talk about neutral topics with them, nothing to do with picking up chicks.

The net result from all of that was I became really good at approaching people.

After that, however, I made a mistake. I said to myself, “Since I’m so good at approaching people and have become an outgoing person, why am I wasting time talking to anyone other than hot chicks?”

So then I limited the people I talked to… and my anxiety about talking to random women swept over me once again. It was as if I’d never had all that practice chatting up strangers in the first place.

At that point I realized it was because I was outcome-dependent. Because I had thoughts like “I’m going to try to lay this chick” in my mind… before I’d even opened my mouth to say “hi”… and so I would crash and burn. It sucked.

Here’s something I want you to try. Whenever you go out, talk to three people, but do it just for practice. Don’t do it for real.

Because it’s just for practice, don’t limit yourself to just talking to hot women. In general, I’ve found that elderly people (both males and females) and fat women are easy to talk to.

If it helps, set up a time limit for your practice interactions, like that you’ll talk to the person for 30 seconds and then you’ll get out of the conversation. (Say something like, “Well, I’m on my way to meeting a friend. Good chatting with you.” And then walk away without making a big deal of it.)

Once you’ve done your practices and feel warmed up, then you can chat up hot chicks. Again though, do it without having any sort of sex-related outcome in mind. For example, if a chick passes by you in a hallway, just say, “Hey, I need a quick female opinion on something.” (Then ask about something that you genuinely want a female opinion on.)

Remember though: have no outcome in mind. So it doesn’t matter if the chick responds rudely.

In fact, when you reach a point that you’ve chatted up lots of women, you’ll find that eventually rude responses on their part mean nothing. You’ll have an attitude of “ha, how original… I’ve had tons of women give me that exact same ‘clever’ rude comment.”

I’ve been rejected hideously, time and time again. One chick screamed “Go away!” at me before I could even get out my initial sentence.

Another time I thought it was amusing when I approached a group of two girls, just for practice, and right after I said “hey,” they both turned their backs on me in unison, as if they were synchronized dancers!

Now I just look back on all of that and laugh.

My point is that the more you approach, the more you’ll reach a level where you notice that most people act in the same, predictable ways. It’ll bore you rather than cause you anxiety.

Think of it as trying to build a house. You put down one brick at a time and cement it. Brick, cement. Brick, cement. It’ll take a long time, but eventually, the walls will be up (which means you’ve finished the hard part).

To get a bit more psychological, there’s really no such thing as “being nervous.” You don’t “get nervous,” like it’s some kind of flu virus that invades your body.

All feelings of nervousness come from within. You have a certain series of thought processes that you go through. You say things to yourself. (When you think thoughts like, “I would reject myself,” it sets you up for failure!) You picture the chicks rejecting you. You feel tense in your body. And so on.

So what you can do to break this is to identify it for what it is.

Notice your negative thoughts and change them. Instead of thinking, “Oh my God, this chick is going to act like a bitch to me because I fumble my words”… think, “It’s awesome that I’m making this approach, because if this chick rejects me, that means I’ve gotten her out of the way and I’m one step closer to finding my dream girl.”

Notice where you feel tense in your body, and then let your muscles relax in those areas. For me, I feel tense in my jaw and face when I’m nervous. So when I relax my jaw and facial muscles, it alleviates a lot of my tension.

I’ll wrap it up for you by concluding with this advice:

1) Be social for the sake of being social. Nothing else.

2) Remember that the only way to get over your fear is by doing the thing you fear. The more you do it, the easier it gets, because your attitude about the experiences will become, “Been there, done that, it’s no big deal.”

3) Recognize your bad thoughts and force yourself to replace them with good ones.

4) Ease the physical tension you have in your body when you feel nervous.

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The ENTIRE Paul Janka Dr. Phil Show Episode

Mack Tight — Mon, 17 Nov 2008 06:28:07 +0000

Paul Janka is the author of the Attraction Formula ebook, Paul Janka Day Game audio program and the new Beyond The Digits DVD program.

We’ve seen the part of the Paul Janka Dr. Phil episode that he wanted us to see and we saw the part Heather Fink wanted us to see…

Finally, here is the full episode. The first two parts include an online dater called John Fitzgerald Page. The final three parts include Paul Janka…

Part 1:

Part 2:

Part 3:

Part 4:

Part 5:

Here’s the points that I thought were interesting…

- The audience was ALL female

- Paul cut out some of the street pickup footage from the video he uploaded to YouTube. The poorly received “orange juice and tea” opener from BEHIND the girls and the resulting negative reactions from the women were cut out.

- Paul opened a Dr. Phil Show worker who was eating by telling her that she should cut her carb intake (?!?!)

Feel free to leave your comments below…

I got a real interesting post coming up this week regarding Paul Janka, Heather Fink, Gawker Media and CBS that you are going to want to keep an eye out for…

In the mean time, Paul still has a few copies of his new 6 Disc Beyond The Digits DVD program available…

It comes with a 4 week free trial…

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