I hear so many gurus talk about kicking your AFC friends to the curb because they are bringing you down.
I don’t care if a friend is somehow bringing down my “social proof”. I have never had a girl lose interest in me because my friend was shy, quiet or nervous talking to women. I can hold my own.
My problem is with the friends who are freeloaders. They always have a sob story that ends with them asking you to lend them money or to drive them around. It isn’t once in a while but almost every time you go out. These are the friends you need to purge.
I think everyone has had at least one friend like this in their life. They are usually self-centered. They excessively talk about themselves rather than ask you what you have been up to. They give criticism but cannot take it. They call you when they need something.
These are the friends who are your cancer. Stop letting your so-called friends shit on you!
Never go out with a friend that you do not enjoy going out with just because you don’t want to go out alone. Learn to go out by yourself and be comfortable and have fun.