When I was an AFC I was the most insecure person on this earth. If anyone would be even the least bit critical of me I would become totally defensive.
Often girls would shit test me and instead of handling it properly in a cool and confident manner I would immediately become defensive and show that I was irritated. I lost that shit test!
When you become defensive you show that you are insecure. Women are not attracted to insecure guys.
Once I had a girl pat me on my head and tell me I had helmet hair. I became enraged and pushed her hand from my hair. How dare she criticize my awesome hair, that bitch!
She was right though. I used globs and globs of the stiffest mega hold hair gel I could find. My hair must have looked like it was molded from plastic. I now use hairspray.
Not only was she shit testing me in which I failed miserably; she was also giving me sound advice that I was too bullheaded to listen to.