Stop being so defensive against criticism

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When I was an AFC I was the most insecure person on this earth.  If anyone would be even the least bit critical of me I would become totally defensive.

Often girls would shit test me and instead of handling it properly in a cool and confident manner I would immediately become defensive and show that I was irritated.   I lost that shit test!

When you become defensive you show that you are insecure.   Women are not attracted to insecure guys.

Once I had a girl pat me on my head and tell me I had helmet hair.  I became enraged and pushed her hand from my hair.  How dare she criticize my awesome hair, that bitch!

She was right though.  I used globs and globs of the stiffest mega hold hair gel I could find.  My hair must have looked like it was molded from plastic.  I now use hairspray.

Not only was she shit testing me in which I failed miserably; she was also giving me sound advice that I was too bullheaded to listen to.

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  • Revolver Ocelot
    January 12th, 2008 at 10:49 am

    HA HA HA!!!

    Funny, yet true. This is a great point that is brought up here. Learning to let go of what people think, and even more so WHO YOU ARE, is a great boost in your game. It’s that ” I don’t care.” factor that just really brings a lot of good energy to the table and allows you to focus on the real goal…the girl. Not looking cool, or avoiding getting tooled, or all the other pick up bull shit that people put WAY to much emphasis on.

    And dats mah 2 centz!!!

    Hope Lives

    Revolver Ocelot

  • Benny
    January 13th, 2008 at 1:28 am

    Anybody know a thing about speed seduction?
    any value?

  • Bobby Rio
    January 13th, 2008 at 12:23 pm


    Speed Seduction is based on NLP. Some see to think it works great.. personally i find it difficult to use as it involves memorizeing a pattern of speech that is not in line with my normal way of communicating…

    But others may have different opinions.

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