A lot of guys are uncomfortable around beautiful women. You can’t be nervous around them if your goal is to pick them up.
The solution is to build a tolerance to them. To do this, you need to force yourself to interact with them as often as possible. That’s easier said than done. The best way to initially do this is to work with or talk to “hired guns”. “Hired guns” is an old Mystery term for waitresses, bartenders and other service industry workers where they are hired often based upon their looks.
Here are some examples:
1.) Take a part time job at a night club or classy restaurant
Get a job as a bar back. That way you’re forced to interact with hot girls and you get paid.
2.) Go to a Hooters/Tilted Kilt/Strip Club
Yes, it’s true that you’re basically paying them to talk to you… but you have to start somewhere. Bullshit with them as long as they’ll stick around.
3.) Talk to the beer tub girl or bartender when the club is slow
Go to the club early or on a weekday night. Talk to a worker as long as possible. If she excuses herself, start talking to her again when she comes back.
Finally, I want to make a few comments about talking to hired guns…
1.) Don’t feel “ashamed” or “awkward”
Back in the day, I always felt weird talking up bartenders and waitresses. I felt like I was wasting my time. They were only talking to me because I was a customer. Years later, I can honestly say that you have nothing to lose by talking to hired guns and everything to gain. Good things can happen.
2.) Never feel like you’re wasting their time
Hired guns have guys talking to them ALL THE TIME. If it wasn’t you talking to them, it would be another guy. They’re used to it. They have to be nice, but they also know how to excuse themselves from you.
3.) Don’t drink while you’re doing it
I don’t want you using alcohol to help get over your anxiety. That’s cheating! Drink water or a Coke.
That’s it guys, go out there and rub shoulders with the hottest girls you can find!