Here’s a short article by Nick Shane, author of Street Smart Dating, about how to flirt with women…
How To Flirt With Women
by Nick Shane
Every guy wants to know how to flirt with a woman. If you want to get her phone number and have a date with her you need to know the real secrets of flirting. Here’s how it works…
You see a beautiful woman that you want to meet and date right? The first question you want to ask me is “so…what do I say to her?”. Ahh, a nickel for every time somebody asked me that
Okay…How do you make sure you say the right things? What are the best lines you can use?
The golden rule of flirting is NOT to use mainstream pick up lines. Yeah, you heard me right the first time. Don’t ever let me catch you using some cheap line you picked up from a forwarded email, a magazine or a website.
They don’t work.
Everyone knows what they sound like and they are very, very lame! You know, chat up lines like “hey, can I have your number, I seem to have lost mine” or “wow I didn’t know angels were flying so low these days”.
You see, women don’t like those lines because they make you look cheap. If you use a fabricated pick up line from a magazine for instance, then you will not make her feel that magical gut level emotion called attraction.
Attraction can be TRIGGERED in any woman if you know how…and let me tell you it is NOT by using lame chat up lines.
It is possible to make a woman feel attracted to you if you know the structure behind it, and every single pick up line out there doesn’t do that. That’s why women think they are boring and cheap.
If you want to be able to flirt with women, then you will have to create YOUR OWN pickup lines. But it’s not the line itself that makes a woman attracted to you, it’s the structure behind it.
So here’s the deal.
If you said to a woman “Was your daddy a thief? Because I think he stole diamonds and put them in your eyes” … it just sounds very needy, desperate and wimpy. A woman will NEVER flirt back or get attracted to you that way.
But if you understand the secrets of attracting women, all sorts of new doors open up for you. Here’s what you should have said:
“So … why do women like shiny and sparkly things so much? Oh I know, because they put them in pink cereal boxes when you were little”
“How many hours you go shopping a week? I think you’re a little shopping addict that loved to borrow credit cards. You are sooo bad you know that? I think we’re gonna get along just great”
If you want to flirt with women and get them attracted to you, be CHEEKY!
To be honest, I can tell you from my own experience that there is NOTHING more powerful than being a cocky but cheeky lil’ bastard when you want to attract women. They will tell you that you are mean, bad, have a big ego and hit you on the arm.
But guess what? They LOVE it!
So make sure you keep doing THAT from now on.
Nick Shane is a street-smart dating expert and author of the book “Street Smart Dating” and several other products that help regular guys like YOU become more successful with women and dating. Get his FREE online Dating Tips newsletter at www.StreetSmartDating.com