How To Get A Woman To Choose You Over Another Man

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Have you ever found yourself in a position where you’re competing with another man for a girl?

How can you get her to choose you over the other guy?

A reader named “C” posted that same question on my Facebook page


Hi Mack,
I really enjoy reading you articles, am learning alot about women.
There is a girl I like and she tells she feels something for me but the problem is that there is another guy pursuing her. That has hindered her to make a decision because it’s hard for. What can an alpha male do in my case?


Hey C, glad you’re reading my pua tips blog and learning!

Let me break down your situation for you…

1.) A woman will date the man they’re most attracted to.
2.) She was apparently more attracted to the other guy.
3.) Her explanation was created to let you down easy.

I know that sounds harsh, but that’s likely the reality of the situation.

The “alpha male” would never be in your predicament. He wouldn’t stand around waiting for a woman to hopefully chose him over another guy. Alpha males have options. They do the choosing themselves.

So what can you do to prevent this from happening in the future?

Make yourself more attractive to women by any means possible. Get some new fashion, learn humor, work on any anxiety issues, correct your posture, become better at flirting, read my blog and subscribe to my free dating advice newsletter etc.

As you become more and more attractive, you’ll become the most attractive dating candidate for more and more women. With more options, you’ll become more “alpha”.

As for what to do with this girl, I suggest moving on. You’ll find a better woman. If not, maybe this girl will see you with other women and find you more attractive because of it.

Hope that helps.

It’s casual,

Mack Tight

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  • David
    January 19th, 2013 at 6:59 pm

    Can I ask - I know that the community advice is that money doesn’t matter. But I’m visiting Australia again (usually I live in Eastern Europe where costs are lower) and everything is so expensive.

    Deep down, money does matter, doesn’t it. But to what extent? In getting a shag v. being a ‘good boyfriend’ how much does it count?

    This is a topic I’d love to see you cover, if you haven’t already…



  • Mack Tight
    January 19th, 2013 at 7:02 pm

    Good question David! Stay tuned… I’ll be answering it in a future post.

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