Here’s a short article on how changing your attitude when you go out can have a positive change on the outcome of the night…
How to Have Your Best Night Ever… TONIGHT
by Mark Redman
I’ve had a few guys write to me with one major question: “What can i do THIS WEEKEND to take my game to the next level?”
So I’m going to share with you what my mentor shared with me very first time we talked. The same nugget of advice that had me getting literally the best blow job of my life, with about zero effort. Now you have to be OUT for this to work - its not namby pamby online dating advice and its not going to help you pick up chicks on xbox Live.
Ok, here goes…
Tonight, your mission, should you choose to accept it, is:
DO NOT TRY TO GET LAID
“Wait what?? This guy is telling me not to get laid? How Am I supposed to…ermmm..get laid?”
That was my reaction when I first heard it too.
Look, you’ve been trying to get laid every other night for the past God knows how long. And how’s it working out for you?
So tonight, change your strategy, put your faith in me just once and try it out.
Your only focus tonight will be HAVING FUN.
In your head you won’t be breaking down interactions, trying to figure out what phase you are in, what to say next, or if she likes you. Instead the only thing you will be “thinking” is:
MMM FUN. MORE FUN. HOW CAN I HAVE MORE FUN. LETS KICK UP THE FUN. MMM THIS FEELS GOOD. FUN.
So let’s review:
1.) Remove the “must get laid. must get laid. must get laid. must get better. must get this handled” thought loop from your mind.
2.) Replace it with “fun. fun. fun. pleasure. amusement. that’s funny. fun. haha. fun”
3.) If you find yourself in your old thought loop of “must get laid. must get better. does she like me? is this working?” you need to snap out of it. How? You ask yourself this question: “How can I have the maximum fun possible right now? How can I make the most people smile? What can I do, right this instant, that will make me FEEL FUCKING INCREDIBLE.”
Look man, that’s all I want you doing tonight. I’m seriously going to be pissed at you if you try to pull a girl. If you try to hook up tonight, you’ve lost. So don’t even try. I’m serious here.
Well actually there’s one rule. If she starts leading you to sex, you can do it. But that’s it.
Just try this out tonight.
So lets finish this up…
Tonight, your only benchmark of success is this:
I want to hear if this connects with you. Seriously, I read all my email and I try to respond to every single one. I identify 100% with what you guys are telling me. You can find my email address in my badass Conquer Your Campus Training Manual.
If you are a college student or a future college student I recommend you get your copy of Conquer Your Campus along with the bonus Masters Program Interviews right now…