Want to meet girls in college? Dating coach Todd Valentine from Real Social Dynamics has some tips for you in this video.
Here’s Todd’s introduction for the video.
How to meet girls in college. It has to be the most common question I get asked because college is different than pickup, but it’s also such an amazing opportunity. See exactly how to have massive success with girls in college.
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This is good stuff. I especially like the point about making a conscious effort to introduce yourself and make small talk to as many people as possible.
When I went to college parties, I always made a point to talk to everyone. Some were assholes and standoffish, and I moved on from them and talked to others. By the end of the night, I became the rock star of the party and usually at least a couple girls were competing for my attention.
Todd also mentions not going for the “hard pull”. College is a big social circle. You’ll likely see the girl again. I agree that you shouldn’t be overly aggressive or pushy. Don’t have a “now-or-never” mindset. College is not a weekend getaway to Vegas.
But on the flip side, don’t be too passive or sheepish. If it’s the first day of class and there’s an attractive girl, go talk to her right away. Invite her to do something with you. Don’t tell yourself “there’s always tomorrow to talk to her”.
I think what Todd means is to be assertive but not to the point that you could possibly burn bridges in the process. Don’t misconstrue it into meaning that you should be overly cautious, just appropriately calibrated.
If you want more from Todd, I highly suggest you check out this free video by him on how to get laid fast. Whether your in college or much older, this video explains his introductory system on how to meet lots of women in a short amount of time.