How To Pick Up Women On The Street

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Here’s a short article by Nick Shane, author of Street Smart Dating, with tips on how to do street pickups.

Notice that his “being cheeky” sure sounds a lot like David Deangelo’s “cocky and funny“…


How To Pick Up A Woman On The Street
by Nick Shane

I bet you see loads of women everyday that you wish you could talk to. You know…the attractive, confident and interesting type but you just know she wouldn’t even look twice at you. You may think that you would never be able to meet a girl like this because she is either out or your league or you just don’t know what to say to her … but I do and I am going to show you how you can get her number.

Lets first look at what happens when you see an attractive woman.

First, you think she is wonderful wish you had the opportunity to talk to her. Secondly, you start to think about it, get really nervous and desperately try to build up your confidence get over there and say something to her. But because you don’t really know what you should do or say, you watch the opportunity slip away as she crosses the street or drives out of sight and you wish you had gone and spoken to her…even if it was just a “Hey, what’s up?”

You must understand there is no reason for not talking to her. Attractive women have men who whistle at her and stare two holes in her ass many times each day.

Women of sheer beauty are sick of men like that…what she wants is an interesting guy that can talk to her without immediately staring at her ass or asking for her number right away.

Attractive women get ‘hit on’ and ‘asked out’ all the time, so what makes you think you can get any further if you are just like everybody else? Remember, you need to be different!

Now listen carefully: the woman you want to meet and pick up at the street corner over there already had countless nice guys come over to her in her lifetime and tell her how beautiful she looks and ask if they can have permission to talk to her. She is sick of these guys.

If you want to be successful and get her phone number you need to have a different approach. Let me show you how:

You have to think of something funny or interesting to say to her. Don’t be nice, don’t pay her a compliment and don’t tell her that “I noticed you from over there and just had to come over and talk to you”.

Everybody does that. What you need to do is push her emotional trigger buttons that create attraction. And how do you do that? By being slightly arrogant but funny at the same time…also called being CHEEKY!

All you have to do is open your mouth when you are near her or when she is just passing you … and continue talking so she stops dead in her tracks. If you get a woman’s attention, she will just look at you … but if you keep talking, she will stop right in front of you. And if you can turn up the heat by being cheeky, she will get attracted in an instant…and get hooked just like that.

So the first thing you do is say “HEY!” or “HI!”…then continue with “Hey listen … I need your female opinion about something”

This automatically disarms the “oh, not another guy” syndrome in her mind because you come off as different.

Then, you just ask her anything that will make her curious, interested and is a great platform for teasing her to get her attracted.

“HEY! … Listen, c’mere for a second. I need your female opinion about something. I’m having some difficulties here … what the hell is the difference between a G-String, and a Thong? I’m supposed to buy this pink thingy for my cousin and I have NO Idea. I think you women are deliberately trying to confuzzle us guys…”

Street Smart DatingJust keep playing, teasing and busting her balls until she says “What’s your name?” … that’s the point where you can tell a woman got attracted to you, and once that happens she is willing to give you her number if you keep it up being cheeky for another 3-5 minutes.

Being successful in the dating game is very simple … IF you know how it works :)

Keep it up!

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Comments: 4 comments

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  • MetMet
    November 21st, 2008 at 5:38 pm

    AWFUL!! Is like:
    - old info
    - bad examples
    - cocky and funny renamed
    - nothing of value

    The level of the articles is lower every day on eseduce! C’mon!

  • Mack Tight
    November 21st, 2008 at 6:21 pm

    Thanks for the comment.

    I was busy (attempt at an excuse), it’s Friday (attempt at an excuse) and this one was in the can from a while back (attempt at an excuse) so I let it go… but I’ll be honest; excuses are bullshit…

    I noticed the “cocky and funny” rename right before I posted it and mentioned it before the article.

    Now that I have time, I read it and agree with you…

    Seriously, “being cheeky” just sounds lame.

    Also asking a girl what the difference between a thong and a g-string during day game also seems miscalibrated…

    For that matter, who buys g-strings for their cousin?!? That sounds plain creepy…

    And who uses words like “confuzzle”?!?

    Regardless, my fuck up for posting it. Keep letting me know which articles you LIKE and DISLIKE and I’ll post accordingly…

  • MetMet
    November 22nd, 2008 at 3:18 pm

    Thanks 4 your answer. I follow eseduce from my RSS reader, so I don’t usually click and live a comment, but the level of those advices was SO bad, that I had to.

    Well, I’ll like to give you my opinion about the site:
    1.- whats about the translate buttons? I haven’t see your stats, but I’m pretty sure that nobody clicks on them, because automated translation is still lame (specially for this kind of articles)
    2.- The eseduce logo is pixeled…
    3.- I really like when you post a review of a product (whit affiliate link and everything), but say it sucks. The same goes for saying that it’s ok.

    Good luck.

  • Mack Tight
    November 22nd, 2008 at 3:42 pm


    Love it…

    1. Funny, I’ve been debating dropping the translation buttons since July. I think you helped make my ultimate decision…

    2. I hammered the logo out quick when I changed themes and told myself I would change it later. Well it is more than “later” now. I’m going to fix it this week.

    3. People like my product reviews because I’m probably the most honest and unbiased. Most of these other blogger’s reviews either suck the product’s balls or try to use reverse psychology to get you to buy it. I try to be an honest reviewer first and an affiliate second. I got some more reviews lined up…

    Thanks for your input, I really appreciate you taking the time to give it to me and I’m going to do my best to make these changes…

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