David DeAngelo is the creator of the Double Your Dating line of programs.
He is an advocate of being cocky and funny around women. I am personally a fan of his material on how to handle shit tests.
Here’s a short excerpt from his Double Your Dating ebook about how to tease women and speak their language…
How To Tease (How To Speak Woman) by David DeAngelo
When I first met one particular girl, I took her hand when she got into the car and held it for a few seconds… then took it away saying “No hand holding this early” as if it were her idea… then at lunch, I put out my hand for her to take it, and then when she went to take it, I moved it before she touched me… then did it again… and again saying “No, really…”
Finally, after the meal was finished, I reached out for her hand, and she wouldn’t take mine because I had teased her so much, so I actually grabbed her hand and held it and massaged it. This was teasing and teasing. And then when she finally gave up I gave it to her.
Then, when I gave her a hug later on, she kissed my on the cheek/neck a couple of and I accused her of kissing me a lot etc. (Idea is that she’s into me and she’s the aggressor). One part of this is me doing something (holding her hand) and then accusing her of doing it (”no hand holding this early”).
This kind of behavior, sending mixed messages, and flirting doesn’t really make sense to most men, but to women it’s magic.
Also, some women really get intrigued if you ‘figure them out’ early on in the game and have their number… and then just ‘laugh at how cute they are’ when they do things. This gets them all freaked out, as they feel like you’re in control and they don’t know what to do next… [continued in Chapter 4 of Double Your Dating ebook]
David DeAngelo’s Double Your Dating ebook comes with 3 bonus ebooks, a free Interviews With Dating Gurus starter kit with two double interviews and one free month of his Interviews With Dating Guru monthly series.