How To Text Girls Using Mirroring Psychology

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Back in the early PUA days, there was a concept called “mirroring”…

It meant to match your breathing, heartbeat and speaking to the rate of the girl you are talking to…

Like everything at the time, it was ripped off from a general psychology concept and poorly translated to the PUA community by either David Deangelo or Mystery…

The PUA definition of mirroring is plain stupid…

You should ALWAYS talk and breath slow and controlled… the only exception being if you’re Ray William Johnson and making 5 minute YouTube videos for people with ADHD…

Whether she speaks 10 or a 10000 words per minute… I still talk in a slow, confident rate…

That being said, there is one situation where I find mirroring to be applicable… and that’s when texting or messaging a girl…

If her online dating message reads like William Shakespeare… I’ll write like Romeo did to Juliet…

If she texts like a 13 yr old girl with poor grammar and annoying abbreviations… I’ll give myself a temporary lobotomy and turn my “LOL” dial from 0 to 11…

I find it greatly improves my response rate…

Sure, it’s important to have your own style… but it’s even more important to cater to your audience…

Here’s an example of a “dumbed-down” conversation I had Saturday night with a girl who messaged me on an online dating site…

Girl: hi

Mack: wassup girl

Girl: hows ur weekend?

Mack: great, bout 2 go out. & u?

Girl: being lazy :) im jenny u?

Mack: drink a red bull and go raise some hell girl :) im mack

Girl: you wont watch sex and the city huh? (reference to my profile)

Mack: oh no, have the complete boxset don’t u? r u looking for your own
“mr. big” carrie… i mean jenny lol

Girl: LOL, i do own the boxset - but if u dont wanna watch i wont make u, just dont make me watch “entourage” (the guys version of sex and the city) … i do like the goonies tho, and other oldschool movies (esp mel brooks…space balls etc)

Mack: but entourage is cool lol … glad u have good taste in movies. may
the schwartz be with you … did u name ur dog barf? lol

Girl: her name is Daisy :) shes my baby - very spoiled
wanna text?

Mack: k, 867-5309 (obviously not my real #)

I’m a technical writer by trade, so it pains me to write shit like “lol”, “k” and “ur”… but when it comes to dating you have to swallow your pride and keep your eye on the prize…

It might not have been the most sophisticated conversation I’ve had… but it got the job done…

And that’s all that matters…

It’s casual,

Mack Tight

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