When to Shift from Being Indirect to Direct with Women

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I often get asked “should you approach women by being direct or indirect?”

I wish the answer was as simple as picking one or the other, but it isn’t…

Lets begin by explaining these two PUA terms…

Direct Approach means conveying your interest to the girl… for example, “I saw you and knew I would kick myself if I did not come talk to you.”

Indirect Approach means you hide your interest… for example, you may ask a girl for her opinion on something because she happens to be in your proximity.

So now that we know the difference… which do I personally use?

Both work well in different situations… but in general, I prefer to use a BLEND of both…

I typically start indirect and shift into direct at the optimal time…

But there is a problem with this… most guys seeking dating advice have a tough time knowing when to “shift gears”…

Those guys plagued with shyness and social anxiety tend to stay indirect far too long…

This often gets them stuck in the friend zone

On the other hand, guys who are anxiety-free but who are socially miscalibrated tend to pour on the “direct-ness” way too fast and heavy…

They come off as low value and their immediate gushing of affection towards the girl is a major turn-off…

So what’s my solution for you?

Force yourself to do the OPPOSITE of what you normally do…

If you tend to be more direct, approach being indirect… or vice versa…

It’ll feel uncomfortable at first, but once you get used to using both - you’ll eventually find a balance…

Use the feedback you get from girls to readjust when you do your “shift” from indirect to direct…

Give it a try - you have nothing to lose.

It’s casual,

Mack Tight

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