Kezia of PUATraining on hooking by tasking and validating

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Here’s a video of Kezia of PUATraining talking about hook leads, specifically giving girls tasks and later giving validation…

Let’s get the obvious out of the way…

Kezia is hot and Richard LaRuina is smart for having a hot female instructor (check out PUATraining for more of her).

Sex sells…

It reminds me of the Family Guy episode where Peter is buying the self-help videos because the instructor lets down her hair and shows her cleavage once Lois leaves the room…

Now as far as what Kezia is SAYING in this video, I agree with the general principles of tasking and validating (you can learn more about these hook leads in PUATraining’s Home Study Course)…

But I have issues with the examples she uses in this video…

So Kezia says that women think a guy who doesn’t offer to buy them a drink within 10 minutes of talking to them is “cheap”…

Instead you should give her money for two drinks and before walking off to the bathroom tell her to order you a foo-foo cocktail with exactly 7 ice cubes and a lime NOT a lemon…

Guys and girls, I live in Milwaukee NOT San Francisco…

If I requested such a drink the girl isn’t going to think I’m cheap but instead an anal-retentive wussy-boy.

Second, I think giving a girl money within 10 minutes of talking to her, even if half the money is for your own drink, is a bad idea.

This connects with the overall issue of buying a woman a drink…

The issue is not about guys losing their money to girls who mooch drinks…

It is about not giving the girl the impression that you are trying to pay for her attention.

I think feeling obligated to buy a girl a drink within 10 minutes of talking to her is ridiculous…

I don’t like the fact that Kezia references the opinions of women regarding this matter…

To me that is like asking a waiter how much you should tip…

The women are obviously going to say you should buy them drinks and the waiter is going to say you should tip extremely generously…

It is of their financial best interests to answer that way.

Now if you set up a date with a girl that you are talking to at a bar or club and you take her out…

I have no issue with you paying for it…

But to buy her a $7 drink after talking to her just a couple minutes in a club environment seems like you are coming from a place of few options.

It is common for a very outgoing and social man to talk to dozens of girls in a night…

He wouldn’t buy each of them a drink, that is not realistic.

A guy who is desperate and only approaches one or two girls in a night might buy every girl he talks to a drink.

I think the real key is to never give someone something expecting anything from it…

And don’t give someone something where they get the impression you gave it to them in order to get something in return.

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  • Yummy Stale Bread
    October 29th, 2008 at 11:32 pm

    I completely agree with everything you have said in this post.

    Personally, I take real issue with these female instructors that are starting to pop up. I understand some people think that they will provide key insight into the female mind, but in the end we get something like in this video. Overall I do not really care for their advice and think they should be used merely as training examples and not as actual instructors dolling out advice.

  • Taylor
    October 30th, 2008 at 5:12 pm

    More female trainers like this one please!

    I enjoyed this video, and it was a great tip too!

  • Bobby Rio
    October 31st, 2008 at 8:30 pm

    I love the belly button chain things on girls… i’m going to have to buy one for my girlfriend…

  • Mack Tight
    October 31st, 2008 at 8:36 pm

    You do that Bobby… but make sure you task her…

    Give her money for two belly chains and tell her to buy you one with 32 golden trinkets coming off it at inch and a half intervals…

    …then validate her… :)

  • F2A
    December 23rd, 2008 at 7:03 pm

    This girl is nothing more than “tits and ass marketing” used to draw in hormonial males into signing up (and paying) for bootcamps.

    I’ve seen her live at PUAtraining, she was hopeless and couldn’t answer the most basic of questions.

    She even claimed that, and I quote “Women do not cockblock guys, that’s a myth”

    One guys in the audience even asked, “If there are two girls in the club and Im by myself, how do I approach if I feel I cannot handle them both?”
    Kezia’s Answer- “I dunno”

    Correct answer- Get a “spotter”. That is an “unaware” male clubber who distracts the obstacle, when you move into the target. I mean a guy in the gym doesn’t need to know you “gym routine” to give a spot. Does he?

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