4 Secrets For Getting A Hot Younger Girlfriend : Older Men and Younger Women
by Dean Cortez
I’ve been hanging out with a lot of younger women (19-23)
these days, and it’s been a BLAST.
I’m attracted to hot younger girls (what guy isn’t?), but
I used to think it would be difficult to “relate” to them
and connect with them.
Then, I got serious about MASTERING this aspect of the
game with older men and younger women. I want to share
a few things I’ve noticed:
You need to ground your interest ASAP. Younger girls lack
much of the social intuition older girls have. They’re
often socially slightly scared of older guys and girls -
they’re only recently out of high school or college, where
relative age is a BIG DEAL - where dating a guy a few years
older than you carries a status that in the real world is
Get onto normal conversation and commonalities QUICKLY,
and qualify a non-sexual interest in that, even if it’s
something dumb like where she’s from, OR she’ll be confused
by (and creeped out by) your interest.
The second thing I’ve noticed:
Younger girls are crap at picking up IOIs (Indicators Of
Interest), and often fail to see when you’re into them
unless you make it pretty obvious. So, be more explicit
with your IOIs than you normally would be. Don’t be afraid
to FLIRT a bit harder than usual — being playful and a
bit cocky, of course.
I used to assume that really hot younger women wouldn’t
be into me, and therefore I didn’t escalate the way I
should have. It took me a while to figure out that it
was quite the opposite, in many cases — these girls
thought THEY were out of MY league!
(I come across as a sophisticated, smart guy with a
wicked sense of humor — and younger women would
sometimes actually think they weren’t “on my level.)
So now, while I’ll tease younger girls, I also make
an effort to be NICE to them - no hard-core qualification.
Many of them don’t yet have the cynical edge of older girls,
and if you’re used to building attraction through
effortlessly pushing aside shit-tests, you’re going to be
in trouble if there are none forth-coming.
The third thing I’ve noticed:
High quality younger girls tend to be heavily idealistic,
even if those views seem naive to you. If a younger woman
from a priviledged background tells you how she’s thinking
of going to live in an artist’s commune, or wants to go and
join the Peace Corps, rather than cracking up uncontrollably,
reward her for that. Encourage her.
If she tells you how she thinks it’s stupid, but still thinks
she might be a famous actress one day despite no acting
experience to date, don’t laugh in her face, and don’t give
her shit for it. Qualify and encourage these.
You might be surprised by how much of your qualification work
you’re doing just by being an older, successful guy who’s
actually taking her seriously.
The fourth thing I’ve noticed:
Younger girls respond well to age-specific
qualification. Favorable comparison to the other end of the
age bracket is effective and consistent. Younger girls will
always hear about how I enjoy hanging out with younger
girls, because they’re less cynical, more willing to express
themselves and live in the moment, and because they’re more
idealistic and not embittered.
Obviously, older women will hear about how much I like women
with more life experience, etc.
The fifth thing I’ve noticed: different things DHV differently
to different age groups. Older girls get the spiel (carefully
done, of course) about how incredibly hooked up I am, and
how successful I am in my various careers, and how mature I
This was falling flat with younger girls. So, I tried switching
to talking about how FUN a lot of the stuff going on was and
switched to physical and state-based attraction.
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