Do you ever try to approach a girl but you stall and get nervous and the excuse-machine in your head kicks in? It is approach anxiety and it is one of the biggest problems guys have.
The most widely known weapon to eliminate it is the 3-second rule. As soon as you look at a girl you have three seconds to approach her.
The 3-second rule is good in theory, but I find that many guys need an extra push. That push is reciting a phrase from the movie “Risky Business” that shuts off the excuse-generator in their head immediately and brings back their confidence.
That phrase is “What the Fuck”
In the movie Joel has a discussion with Miles that goes like this:
You have anxiety approaching so you get nervous and start making excuses. You are concerned with jeopardizing your future and your future chances when in fact you’re actually keeping yourself from having a more successful future.
It is hard to get better with women if you do not approach them. You have very little chance with the girl if you do not approach the group she is in.
The next time you find yourself with approach anxiety, give yourself freedom:
Tell yourself “What the fuck” and go talk to the girl!
If you can’t say it, you can’t do it!
For more tips on how to approach girls successfully, check out my friend Bobby’s free approaching video presentation here.