Overcome Approach Anxiety by saying “What the Fuck”

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Do you ever try to approach a girl but you stall and get nervous and the excuse-machine in your head kicks in? It is approach anxiety and it is one of the biggest problems guys have.

The most widely known weapon to eliminate it is the 3-second rule. As soon as you look at a girl you have three seconds to approach her.

The 3-second rule is good in theory, but I find that many guys need an extra push. That push is reciting a phrase from the movie “Risky Business” that shuts off the excuse-generator in their head immediately and brings back their confidence.

That phrase is “What the Fuck

In the movie Joel has a discussion with Miles that goes like this:

Miles: No guts, Goodson.
Joel: The problem was I just wasn’t attracted to her.
Miles: That should never stop you.
Joel: She seemed too big.
Miles: It could’ve worked out.
Joel: I thought I’d get into trouble.
Miles: Sometimes you have to say, “What the fuck!” Make your move!
Joel: That’s easy for you to say. You’re all set. You’re probably going to Harvard. Me, I don’t want to make a mistake, jeopardize my future!
Miles: Joel, let me tell you something. Every now and then, say “What the fuck.” “What the fuck” gives you freedom. Freedom brings opportunity, opportunity makes your future… So your parents are going out of town. You got the place all to yourself.
Joel: Yeah.
Miles: What the fuck…If you can’t say it, you can’t do it.

You have anxiety approaching so you get nervous and start making excuses. You are concerned with jeopardizing your future and your future chances when in fact you’re actually keeping yourself from having a more successful future.

It is hard to get better with women if you do not approach them. You have very little chance with the girl if you do not approach the group she is in.

The next time you find yourself with approach anxiety, give yourself freedom:

Tell yourself “What the fuck” and go talk to the girl!

If you can’t say it, you can’t do it!

For more tips on how to approach girls successfully, check out my friend Bobby’s free approaching video presentation here.

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  • seattlewilly
    October 25th, 2007 at 2:09 pm

    Absolutely correct, my friend. It’s like trying to win the lottery without buying a lottery ticket. No approach = no chance in hell.

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