Do you ever try to approach a girl but you stall and get nervous and the excuse-machine in your head kicks in? It is approach anxiety and it is one of the biggest problems guys have.
The most widely known weapon to eliminate it is the 3-second rule. As soon as you look at a girl you have three seconds to approach her.
The 3-second rule is good in theory, but I find that many guys need an extra push. That push is reciting a phrase from the movie “Risky Business” that shuts off the excuse-generator in their head immediately and brings back their confidence.
That phrase is “What the Fuck”
In the movie Joel has a discussion with Miles that goes like this:
You have anxiety approaching so you get nervous and start making excuses. You are concerned with jeopardizing your future and your future chances when in fact you’re actually keeping yourself from having a more successful future.
It is hard to get better with women if you do not approach them. You have very little chance with the girl if you do not approach the group she is in.
The next time you find yourself with approach anxiety, give yourself freedom:
Tell yourself “What the fuck” and go talk to the girl!
If you can’t say it, you can’t do it!
For more tips on how to approach girls successfully, check out my friend Bobby’s free approaching video presentation here.
For one reason or another “Mack Tight” decided that he couldn’t and wouldn’t be able to make it last night. What was I going to do? Let a night go to waste because he couldn’t come? No, of course not, it’d be rather stupid for me to do such a thing. I kinda of just let it go, goofed around and bumped into a few girls here and there that I knew previously, and sarged some rather good looking ones, got some number closes and several day two’s. This wasn’t even a challenge to me, as I’ve progressed to the stage of advanced pick up artist over the past two years that I’ve been teaching and learning Venusian Arts. I can’t set limitations upon myself if I am to succeed. I’ve gotten to a point where no woman is ever unapproachable if not uncloseable.
Welcome to Mack Tight and Vedran’s seduction Blog. We are two PUAs from Milwaukee, Wisconsin.
I think this blog is going to stand out in a field of seduction-related blogs. Vedran and me both have completely contrasting personalities so that should create some variety.
I hope to make my posts informative and humorous. I’m going to tell it like it is and hold nothing back even if it offends others in the community.
I’m not going to make arrogant posts giving the impression that I shit golden turds. There is too much arrogance in this community already. It seems like everyone is the self-proclaimed “GREATEST PUA OF ALL TIME”. I’m not the greatest PUA of all time, but I quite possibly might be the most obnoxious PUA of all time