Tapping, humming, and talking yourself out of approach anxiety

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I stumbled across this video on YouTube about overcoming approach anxiety. I found it on the bizarre side.

I’m not familiar with this PUA named Magnus. You can find out more about him, his techniques and get his ebook at his site Inner Game Tapping.

What I like about pick up teachers like Mystery, Style and Juggler is that they explain with logic the reasons and concepts behind things that seem illogical to me regarding women and the way they act and think.

On the contrary, it seems illogical to me that rolling my eyes, humming, talking to myself, and tapping my body is going to make me overcome approach anxiety. Maybe I need Mystery to explain it to me.

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VH1’s The Pickup Artist premiere ratings are disappointing

USA Today released last weeks cable ratings highs and lows and based on my impression, they were not too good for Mystery’s new show:

“The premiere of L.A. Ink scored 2.8 million viewers …Sunday’s Flavor Flav Roast drew 3.8 million viewers…MTV’s The Real World: Sydney had a slow start with 1.6 million Wednesday, and VH1’s Pickup Artist drew 673,000 Monday…Sci Fi Channel’s Flash Gordon remake did better with 2.1 million Friday. ”

Flash fucking Gordon had three times the viewers on a Friday, what the fuck is this world coming to?!?  Trust me all you Sci-Fi geeks; your time would be better spent watching and learning from The Pickup Artist.  You may even end up trading in your box of 20-sided dice for a box of condoms.

Everyone please tell your friends to watch next Monday, especially if they have a Nielson box!

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Don’t settle for bronze when you can go for the gold

Recently I met up with a wing at a bar that in my impression was full of 5, 6, and 7’s with very few HB’s if any. This would not have been an issue if it was earlier in the night and we were warming-up or even if it was a Monday, but this was during prime time on a Saturday.

He was plowing through sets so I did the same. I opened a set of 6 and 7’s and I number closed the target. I settled based on the quality of that venue.

The next day I was mad at myself. Why did I waste my time at a venue with such a limited amount of HB’s?


Sure, maybe you have a lot of friends who go to that sub par venue that night. Maybe it is close to your house or apartment. Maybe it has good drink specials. Maybe you know the bouncers, bartenders and waitresses. Maybe there is no line to get in.


Drive the extra miles. Pay the extra bucks for drinks. Wait the extra minutes or even hours to get in. You belong there, not at a sub par venue full of bronze medals.

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Overcome Approach Anxiety by saying “What the Fuck”

Do you ever try to approach a girl but you stall and get nervous and the excuse-machine in your head kicks in? It is approach anxiety and it is one of the biggest problems guys have.

The most widely known weapon to eliminate it is the 3-second rule. As soon as you look at a girl you have three seconds to approach her.

The 3-second rule is good in theory, but I find that many guys need an extra push. That push is reciting a phrase from the movie “Risky Business” that shuts off the excuse-generator in their head immediately and brings back their confidence.

That phrase is “What the Fuck

In the movie Joel has a discussion with Miles that goes like this:

Miles: No guts, Goodson.
Joel: The problem was I just wasn’t attracted to her.
Miles: That should never stop you.
Joel: She seemed too big.
Miles: It could’ve worked out.
Joel: I thought I’d get into trouble.
Miles: Sometimes you have to say, “What the fuck!” Make your move!
Joel: That’s easy for you to say. You’re all set. You’re probably going to Harvard. Me, I don’t want to make a mistake, jeopardize my future!
Miles: Joel, let me tell you something. Every now and then, say “What the fuck.” “What the fuck” gives you freedom. Freedom brings opportunity, opportunity makes your future… So your parents are going out of town. You got the place all to yourself.
Joel: Yeah.
Miles: What the fuck…If you can’t say it, you can’t do it.

You have anxiety approaching so you get nervous and start making excuses. You are concerned with jeopardizing your future and your future chances when in fact you’re actually keeping yourself from having a more successful future.

It is hard to get better with women if you do not approach them. You have very little chance with the girl if you do not approach the group she is in.

The next time you find yourself with approach anxiety, give yourself freedom:

Tell yourself “What the fuck” and go talk to the girl!

If you can’t say it, you can’t do it!

For more tips on how to approach girls successfully, check out my friend Bobby’s free approaching video presentation here.

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