Unknowing people may associate “pickup lines” with “pickup artists”… this couldn’t be farther from the truth…
Funny pickup lines like “is there a mirror in your pants, because I can see myself in them” may be amusing when used in the movies… but in reality they are very direct, do not progress or fuel the interaction… and are just… plain… CHEESY!
Here’s an article by Ross Jeffries describing the differences between pickup lines and pickup routines/patterns…
Pick-Up Lines vs. Patterns
by Ross Jeffries
Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,
I often get asked, in e-mails I get from students as well as during live appearances on video chats and in-person seminars, what are some of the best pick-up lines for guys to use on chicks.
Let me begin by stating: I don’t teach “pick-up lines.” Speed Seduction® Masters-In-Training (MITs) use conversational patterns.
So let’s ask: what IS a “pattern”?
A “pattern” is much more than memorized “lines” or even complete “speeches”. It includes a more broad variety of actions/methods/techniques designed to engage the woman, capture her vibe, and appeal to what drives her…wild.
I know you want to see some pattern language in action. So before we go any further, watch this short video clip of me working a hot Brazilian chick at one of my live seminars into an erotic trance. (My apologies in advance, this clip is low-quality, but you’ll still be able to hear and see what’s happening.)
More importantly: the right question can be a “pattern”.
A “pattern” is any communication that captures and leads a woman’s imagination and stimulates her emotions in the right direction.
Which of the following, for example, is a “pattern”:
1. What do you do for a living?
2. What do you find most challenging about what you do, and what do you find most fulfilling about what you do?
Do you get my point here?
Here’s another example:
1. Where was the last place you went on vacation?
2. If you could go somewhere where money and time were no object, where would you go, and what kind of….things…would you like to try?
Here’s a fun assignment: come up with a typical question women get asked by Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) guys. Then take a stab at coming up with a Speed Seduction® version of the same question that actually would stimulate her emotions and imagination in a useful direction.
Peace and piece,
P.S. If you are looking for conversational patterns, click here to find the “mother lode”…