Okay, you’ve probably met a lot of women you were interested in but took you some time to actually get somewhere with, be it a number, a kiss or even more.
It took some extra effort and light pushing to get that woman. Now my question … what is REALLY going on here. Why do women sometimes play hard to get?
Basically, women do not want to come off as “easy” or “slutty”. That’s why they set barriers and don’t let guys any further if a certain amount of time hasn’t passed yet.
- When you try to speak to a woman, they try to blow you out
- When you make an attempt to kiss them, they are a bit hesitant
- When you want to get to 3rd base, they push you away but still want to make out.
You know what all these signals mean? They only mean one thing:
The slut-factor kicks back in or in other words, she is actively thinking that “it isn’t the right time yet”.
Yes, she does want you to keep going but it is up to her how far she will let you. But a “NO” doesn’t mean that you should stop right away and leave her be, hell no!
Just take a small step back, and after a couple of minutes take 2 steps forward. If she says “NO” and pushes your hand away, don’t let it bother you and just think “ahhh, she isn’t ready yet …let’s chill for a while and after 5 minutes … it’s on again”
I’ll talk about persistence in another time but for now, you will need to know what you are dealing with first.
All this behavior is called “playing hard to get”. When a woman is being hard to get, you know what
It makes you want her even MORE
That’s what we call “being a challenge”.
Now let’s turn the tables:
You see, women are not interested in men that are EASY to get either. If she knows that you
a) would do ANY-thing to get her,
you aren’t much of a challenge
b) generally don’t have a lot of options,
you aren’t really interesting
Look, it’s pretty simple: Women always like what other women like. If a girl sees some guy that has 2 women on his arm (and doesn’t behave like … pardon my french … a gaylord), they will automatically go “mmhh, check him out”.
But if some nice-guy comes up to her and says “Hi gorgeous, can I buy you a drink”, the challenges is all gone.
Women always want what they
a) cannot have, and
b) isn’t easy to get.
It’s just psychology 101, and if you want to know HOW you can become that challenge women love and much, much more, you really should get the Street Smart Dating Course.
I’ll speak to you soon