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There is a big debate in the seduction community on who should pay for the bill on the date or if it should be split. I’ve heard countless opinions given by gurus based on different conditions.
I think Swinggcat, author of Real World Seduction, gives a pretty solid answer below:
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Despite what women might tell you, there
aren’t any consequences to making a woman foot
half the bill. Once in a long while this
request will turn a woman from a giggly little
girl into a fascist ice queen. If this happens
you know that she’s either a gold digger or a
psycho belonging in a loony bin. My advice:
Run Forest, run.
Healthy women Don’t expect You to be their
human ATM machine. Shelling out your hard
earned moolah will generate zero attraction
in women.
But paying for a woman won’t lessen her
attraction toward You. As long as She doesn’t
interpret Your generosity as an attempt to get
her to like you, you’re fine.
Yet anytime you get that icky feeling inside
your gut, squawking, “If you don’t pay she’s
NOT going to like You,” ignore it. Avoid it
like the plague. Send it off to some leper
colony. Shunt it out of your reality.
Because: If you keep listening to your gut
and give in to his bad advice, the woman will
know why you’re paying for her meal and
interpret your kind gesture as an attempt to
get her validation and approval.
Women, my friend, feel no attraction toward
men seeking their validation. Female friends
of mine have confirmed this. They’ve told me
stories about wanting to sleep with a guy up
until he started acting like an approval
seeking puppy dog. It was like, they said,
the guy picked up the attraction she felt
by its lapels, plopped its ass on an electric
chair, and fried it to cinders.
After lots of experimenting and testing I’ve
come up with a four step method, giving YOU
the power to define and stay in control of
the Meta-Frame that you’re the Prize.
Take your success with women to a new level by
getting yourself a copy of my Real World
Seduction Guide right now and learn more.
- Swinggcat
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kevo
January 18th, 2008 at 12:05 pm
with regrds to Joes quetion about what is the best method for pua, I was recently at a publishers seminar and a company that published a magazine in the 1970′ called “Swingers” (the last time there was a pu movement in the disco ’70s) devoted to pick up. as a side note , even though the tactics and lines used back then were dorky soundy, they were essentially the same as what is out there now, except now it is nore refined.
Anyway, a new magazine called “PICKUP NOW” is set to hit the stands this summer. In it, they did a exhaustive clinical study consumer reports style on the various commercial pu methods out there: Natural (RSD, Guwitch, juggler), Social Proof Method (Mystery, Mehow) Mixed method (stylife) and NLP based (HYpnotica, SS),.
After taking 4 guys who were gradxed to be equal in looks, status etc, they had them go thru the traing cousrse for 1 year and use the standard material that was unique to each maethod. What the results were was unexpected. Overall, the Natural method had the highest ration/average of day twos numbers and lays then all the othe methods, by a slim yet significant margin. MM and style life were neck and neck in this area. and surprisingly, NLP based method, had the highest number of number closes, but a extremely high ratio of flakes, which meant no day twos. evidently, the natural method required less training and something that was less detectable to women and authentic.
There was a lot more to it , but come july the official study will be released. Basically, it reccommended people to study methods form gwm rsd or juggle for the best results. Hope this helps
Mack Tight
January 18th, 2008 at 12:57 pm
Thanks for the post Kevo.
I would comment on this more but I have several days of posts that are already written to be posted next week that coincide with this topic.
I suggest everyone subscribe to my blog feed or check my blog several times next week. I consider them to be good posts.
Benny
January 18th, 2008 at 10:26 pm
This has been my experience as well. Once I went more “natural’ and worked on inner game and attitude, my success was better, numbers especially were solid and I seem to get blown out less….it;’s obvious when you run a routine or pattern etc…
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