The Part of the Paul Janka Dr. Phil Episode That Paul Didn’t Want You to see…

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Whenever a guru appears on a show or documentary they usually only put the favorable parts on sites like YouTube to promote themselves.

As far as the Dr. Phil Paul Janka episode, they left out a confrontation with a girl who once dated him.

Her name is apparently Heather Fink and she is a New York comedian.

Here’s her video with text added by her…

She adds the following description for the video:

My appearance on Dr. Phil … uncensored, and full of ridiculous sass and attitude.

Here’s my opinion on it all:

I find Heather with her glass of red wine and skull shirt incredibly annoying. She reeks of false sophistication and of being a societal trend lemming. She sums up everything I’m not looking for in a woman.

I think she set Paul up in order to get some media exposure and help her comedian aspirations. She basically wrote to several blogs including Gawker about Paul in addition to this Dr. Phil episode.

I think both the best and worst thing about Paul is how he holds his composure and controls his emotions. He doesn’t overly react against allegations or become defensive.

But at other times he is emotionless to the point of being boring. The guy seems bland and lacks personality for what I have seen. Does this guy smile or ever say anything funny? In these TV clips he looks like a robot.

Thundercat might think fat guys need pure personality to attract women but I think they should focus on their weight problem while guys like Paul focus on their personality.

I digress once again…

Heather attacks him with the whole “I wouldn’t touch your dick with a ten foot pole” routine which we all know is complete bullshit. She made out with him, was surely thinking about him a lot and gave him a booty call when she was drunk.

Paul addressed her masturbation claim by saying it was untrue because it would be an “ineffective strategy”. That’s a logical rebuttal but it doesn’t douse the emotional flames she created.

When she points out that she never actually slept with him he says it is because he met her before his system was “fully codified”. “Codified”?!? Just fess up and admit you fucked up at that time, no excuses!

She then brings up that he had sex with hookers which Paul freely admits. I know from male friends and former colleagues who I have talked to candidly that probably 50% or more of all guys over 30 have paid for it sometime in their life. Sex is basically a publicly traded commodity in most countries that are not as Puritanical as the US.

In summary, I don’t think this footage was particularly damning of Paul. In fact I commend him for taking the allegations gracefully, keeping his composure, answering the tough questions honestly and actually complementing her when it was all said and done.

Paul Janka Day GameI’m not keen on the whole New York socialite scene so maybe his overall drabness and tendency to be serious is what attracts such women. This girl is apparently a comedian herself and was attracted to his ability to intelligently discuss history, politics and culture. I cannot picture such topics and demeanor being as effective around here in Milwaukee.

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  • Noah
    September 11th, 2008 at 1:32 pm

    He handled this amazingly well. I was expecting some damning video in which he contradicts what he says about himself, but what I came away with was even more respect for the guy.

    I don’t know how he could have pushed more personality into the scene because he was being hit with tough questions and working over a hostile crowd the entire time. The fact that he manned up (mostly) with the tough questions and never got booed by the masses was a win in my book.

    Thats the second best way I’ve seen a person win over a tough crowd like the opening scene in Thank You For Smoking right after Joe Rogan upstaging Carlos Mencia at his own show.

  • Mack Tight
    September 11th, 2008 at 2:12 pm

    I agree that when you’re thrown in the piranha pit like he was here that it is no time to be making wise cracks.

    But based on what I have read and seen of him including several articles, ebooks and TV show appearances, the guy seems a bit vanilla to me in the personality department.

    I don’t know if he necessarily won over the crowd but he definitely didn’t fuel them. Basically he made her look like a hypocritical drama queen. She was basically calling him a sexually deviant whore yet she was the one buzzing his doorbell at 3am at night when she was all liquored up even after fully knowing he was what he was.

    I agree that this video impressed me more than the one he uploaded himself. I don’t think he should have cut this part out but I guess all the hooker and masturbating talk might be too taboo for some potential ebook buyers.

  • Gregory Arkadin
    September 12th, 2008 at 6:23 pm

    “I cannot picture such topics and demeanor being as effective around here in Milwaukee. ”

    That’s one of the agonizing things about livng here, they actually pride themselves on being ….a…basic. You go to a place like the clannish south side which is chock full of schmengies and happy puppets, you find an expanded meaning to the grase v “ignorance is bliss”. everytime I turn on the TV for a nationally televised football game in Green Bay I cringe when they get a shot of some douche with a styrofoam cheesehead..why not where a tee shirt that says “I am a slug”. what a great image to send the rest of the country. People here would rather talk about brett favres shoelaces for five hours or the five point buck they shot.

  • anon
    September 14th, 2008 at 1:44 am

    This is all bullshit, obviously paid off by Paul’s people.

  • Scot McKay
    September 17th, 2008 at 9:30 am

    Pardon me for thinking out of the box here.

    But Heather needs a dating coach. Badly.

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