Here’s an article by David Wygant…
Do you make the “boyfriend mistake” with women?
No…I don’t mean do you sleep with women
who have a boyfriend.
I mean, the “boyfriend mistake” that could be
costing you the chance to be meeting women
who now (or later) may be someone with
whom you will share an amazing and powerful
Let me ask you a question…
What do you do if you meet a woman, then
find out you she has a boyfriend?
Do you stop talking to her?
Do you CHANGE the way you talk to her?
Do you feel like you shouldn’t talk to her?
If you answered yes to any of these questions,
you are making a BIG mistake … and NOT for
the reasons you may think!
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So, here is that mistake — AND how
it may be costing you amazing connections
with AMAZING women…
Also, I know that what I’m about to tell you
is true for many reasons, but most particularly
I know it from personal experience (and lots of it!)
Let me tell you something.
Three of the best relationships I’ve had in my
life have been with women who had a boyfriend
when I first met them.
Now when I met them, I wasn’t trying to seduce
them or make them my girlfriend.
I just looked at meeting them as meeting an
That is the way I look at life.
When I meet someone very interesting, I am
going to try to get to know them as a person
regardless of whether they’re male or female.
What a lot of people (both men and women)
do when they meet someone of the opposite
sex and find out that person has a boyfriend or
girlfriend, is immediately dismiss that person.
They do it because of their own frustrations
They say to themselves “Well, I don’t want
to get to know this person because I might
like them once I get to know them, and this
person won’t like me because they’re not
When you meet someone who is interesting,
get to know that person on a friendship basis.
Stop having so many expectations, and stop
projecting your expectations onto others.
It’s just not worth it to have all those expectations.
My current girlfriend had a boyfriend when I
first met her.
The first time I met her, I was interested in
her and we exchanged numbers.
Then she called me to say that she had a
boyfriend but was interested in getting to
know me as a person.
We then got to know each other just as
friends and it was nice.
She ended up breaking up with her boyfriend,
and called me months afterwards just to catch
up and reconnect . . . but with no expectations.
Now here we are dating.
So you never know what’s going to happen in life.
The fact is, though, that it’s very hard to find
someone who is really amazing.
So you need to be open to it every day.
There are a lot of great people who are in
They may not be ready to get involved with
you right now, but get to know them now
on a friendship basis.
You never know where things might lead
in the future.
Stop being so much about instant gratification.
I wanted to go deeper into this subject because
a lot of you make the mistake of dismissing
people you want but can’t immediately have.
So it’s really important to explore this issue
If you want forever ELIMINATE everything in
your dating life that holds you back from
meeting and attracting the women you MOST
desire, and if you want to learn how to create
the kind of real inner confidence that will allow
you to easily and effortlessly approach ANY
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Until next time…