Who’s The Best Wingman For You?

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When I started getting back into the seduction community around early 2007, I studied a lot of David Deangelo’s Double Your Dating material…

One of his suggestions was to find the most successful guy in the club and kiss his ass, bring him women, buy him drinks, lick his balls, be his lackey, he the beta to his alpha and fluff him before he has intercourse with the hottest girl from the club…

Ok, ok… maybe I’m exaggerating a bit :-)

The general gist of it was that you should offer the biggest pimp in the club everything of value that you have (which for most chumps, is very little). In return, he will take you under his wing like Mr. Miyagi and turn you into “The Vajayjay Kid”…

Where did David get this pie-in-the-sky idea from… A chick flick maybe?

Let me tell you from years of experience, there’s a 99% chance that the most “alpha” guy in the club will do everything in his power to make you feel like a piece of dogshit if you DO get to know him…

He doesn’t do it in an obvious manner that sends off bells and whistles in the mind of most chumps…

He does it in a subtle, back-handed and psychologically manipulative way that chumpy guys can’t pick up on…

For example…

In my mid-20’s I was roommates and best friends with a guy who was VERY successful with women…

We partied hard and HE had lots of sex with hot women in our apartment…

Up until a few years ago, I considered those years to be some of the best of my life.

A couple years ago, I went out with him for the first time in several years…

I instantly picked up on how he was trying to manipulate me and the other guys in our group for his own advantage…

He created inner turmoil, subtly back-stabbed, “AMOGed” and generally did everything he could under the table to make sure he had the upper hand that night…

I finally ditched him and pulled a girl at a different bar…

When I was heading back with her after bar time, he was on the corner and he was heckling me…

By “heckling”, I really mean “attempting to cockblock” me…

I went up to him, knocked the fucker out, and walked off with the girl…

I haven’t seen or heard from him since…

It got me thinking about the past…

I started to recount all the backhanded bullshit he pulled on me without me realizing it…

I started to realize how few women I slept with during the years I was his “lackey”…

He beat me down, manipulated me, made me feel like utter shit BUT yet I still looked up to him for some reason…

Why would you want to hang with a guy who beats you down and stunts your growth?

YOU DON’T!!!

I was recently watching “Jersey Shore” on MTV and saw how Mike “The Situation” manipulates the other guys in the household…

He’s even more upfront about it than most manipulative guys are…

I was basically like Pauly D back in the day… just worse…

I have more respect for Vinnie on that show than Pauly, he may get less action but at least he has the balls to challenge Mike and distance himself from him…

Similarly…

The few months I spent hanging with other guys from the seduction community, I saw this run rampant…

Most guys wanted you to fluff their fragile ego, juice off of you and offer very little in return…

I was completely guilty of this myself…

With all that being said…

Who should you be wingmen with?

The answer is, the guys who were like me back in my mid-20’s….

That “alpha” guy loved to hang out with me because I was…

* generally socially competent… yet, oblivious on how to sexually communicate AKA flirt with women
* average looks… not too hot to be a threat, not too ugly to bring down his value
* submissive and not aggressive
* trustworthy and loyal
* stable and consistent

The honest truth is that very few wingmen relationships involve you both sharing the leading role…

You are more than likely NOT going to find a Jimmy Lee to your Billy (a Double Dragon reference for those who don’t know :-) )

Arnold Arnold Schwarzenegger NEVER made a movie with Sylvester Stallone…

But they BOTH did movies with Carl Weathers…

In your wingman relationships, you want to be the Arnold or Sly and NOT the Carl Weathers…

It’s unfortunate, but it’s a mean and cruel world out there!

Rather than sucking the balls of your town’s resident gigolo… look for a competent, loyal guy who is not a threat to you…

Be the guy who makes things happen on your own and you will stop looking for guys to make things happen for you…

Learn from my past mistakes… trying to leech off a more successful guy typically just backfires!

It’s casual,

Mack Tight




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  • sadfl
    January 18th, 2010 at 3:31 pm

    I’ve read most of DeAngelo’s work and only thing that even comes close to that shit you’ve written is him recommending AFCs to ask naturals to show them some game. Not sucking their cock…

    And one more thing, (un)fortunately I’ve watched only two ep of Jersey Shore in which Mike started to act all wussy after holding hands with that one chick (lives in the house, don’t remember her name). She, obviously, dumped him afterward and got together with Ronnie. Then, he started to act all hurt and jealous which is not a typical alfa behaviour. To make things worse, all the chicks in the house made fun of him for a while…

    But if you see yourself as one of those douches and enjoy classical movie masterpieces like those made by Arnold and Carl Weathers, then this post makes perfect sense…

    P.S. Sorry if comment was poorly written, English is not my first language…

  • Mack Tight
    January 18th, 2010 at 4:13 pm

    Why would a “natural” take their time to show a chump some game?

    It’s not in their advantage to do so…

    I KNOW David at the VERY LEAST alluded that if you introduce the “alpha” guy to a ton of hot women, then he might be more inclined to help you out…

    BUT if you had hot women around you like that, you wouldn’t need the help of an alpha guy, would you?

    It’s like telling someone the cure for approach anxiety is to approach more women…

    If they COULD cold approach women, they wouldn’t be looking for tips on curing AA!

    I don’t know if you’re serious or being sarcastic with the reference “classical movie masterpieces like those made by Arnold and Carl Weathers” but I found it funny nonetheless :-)

  • Bobby Rio
    January 19th, 2010 at 7:01 pm

    I personally always do a shit load better when i’m out with guys who have LESS game then me…

    For some reason, when i know i’m the one that has to make things happen… I perform twice as good.

    When i’m out with some of my friends who are really good… i sort of take a back seat and let them do all of the work.

    And i agree, most guys won’t take the time to teach an unknown… but then again, a lot of guys feed off the admiration of others. and if you show a genuine interest in learning from them… the right guy might bite.

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