Why I don’t have the words “slut”, “ho”, “whore” or even “bitch” in my vocabulary

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There are words I personally abstain from using.

A few of those words are “slut”, “ho” and “whore”.

Those words are legitimate words. They are used to describe girls who sell sex for money.

That being said, there are only three types of people who have any legitimate claim to using those words since they are the only ones that will know if a girl is truly one.

Those are a john, a cop and a pimp.

A john won’t use those words because it would be self-incriminating. A cop will use the more PC term “prostitute”. That leaves pimps.

I mentioned in yesterday’s post that I am not a fan of the teachers of mack, pimp and player game using those terms when teaching men to become better with women. That is because they are not using those words to describe women who truly sell sex for money like a true pimp would. I hear terms like “Mr. Save-A-Ho” and “ho-chasin” used by them. They are just using them to describe low value or promiscuous women which I think is not a smart move. Sometimes they even use them to describe women in general.

My fear is that the use of such words just adds to the “don’t be a slut” stigma that looms over most women’s heads. Sure we can learn to overcome the things women do to avoid this stigma but I prefer not to have to. I don’t want to encourage the potential of more cases of last minute resistance or anti-slut defense.

When I reentered the seduction community in the fall of 2006, I really spent some time thinking who primarily uses these words.

Here’s my general conclusion:

75% of the time the word is said by a woman calling another woman it

25% of the time it was said by an AFC who is unsuccessful with women or who is hating on another man’s f-close

Based on that, whether it be consciously or inadvertently because of my increased success, I stopped using those words completely.

I also stopped using the word “bitch” in regards to a woman.

That’s another term used primarily by women to women and by guys who just do not understand women or how to deal and interact with them.

Basically I came to the conclusion that using these words just would show my lack of success with women to others and could only lead to more problems in the future.




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