Why Women Run From Nice Guys: Part 1
by David Deangelo
I have a lot of guys write me to say, “I know this girl who’s beautiful and smart and attractive. She and I are great friends, we have everything in common, and we get along perfectly… but she says that she’s just not attracted to me…”
Have you ever noticed that:
1) The most attractive and interesting women seem to be attracted to men who don’t treat them very well?
2) That the “nicer” you are to a woman the more she often seems to act like “just a friend” to you?
What’s going on here? Didn’t mom say to be “nice” to girls?
Here’s the deal: Women aren’t usually romantically attracted to “nice” guys. Women are attracted to men who are funny, confident, and mysterious. Good looks don’t hurt, but if you’re not 6′4″ tall and model-handsome, then you have to learn how to attract women with your personality.
And being “nice” isn’t going to do it for you.
A while back, I mentioned an interesting book that was written about the band Motley Crue. Remember those guys?
Well, the book is called “The Dirt: Confessions of the World’s Most Notorious Rock Band.” As I read through that book, I realized that these guys have dated more of the world’s most attractive women than anyone (except maybe Hugh Hefner).
In case you didn’t know, the guys in Motley Crue are not very “nice.” They’re famous for taking every drug known to man, beating their women, fighting, and having a lot of people die around them.
Now, the first thing most guys say is, “Yeah, but they’re rich and famous…”
And this is true, they are rich and famous. But, and it’s a BIG ONE… all of the women that they have dated, married, and beaten up are RICH AND FAMOUS TOO!
These are supermodels and playmates of the year and such. These women can date whoever they want. Tommy Lee was MARRIED to both Heather Locklear AND Pamela Anderson… remember?
These women didn’t need Tommy Lee for his money or his fame… they’re dating these guys for some OTHER REASON!
Are you with me on this?
So what’s going on here? And more importantly, how can you use this information to be more successful with women and dating?
I’ll dig into this deeper in part 2 next week.
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