Here’s a short excerpt from David DeAngelo’s Double Your Dating ebook about what women are attracted to in men and why…
Why Women Are Attracted To Things Like Fame, Money And Power by David DeAngelo
… I say that women are attracted to men that are famous, rich and powerful for a REASON.
My opinion is that women believe on a genetically and socially programmed, unconscious level that these men are more intelligent, more fun, more interesting, more able to give them the lifestyle - and MOST IMPORTANTLY- give them the FEELINGS that they want.
In his book ‘Influence’ Robert Cialdini talks about a psychological principle called the ‘Halo Effect.’ In a nutshell, humans naturally assume that attractive and powerful people are smarter and more trustworthy than average people.
A woman desires a man that fits into her self image fantasies that have been forming since she was very young. And thanks to Disney these fantasies were imbedded even further than her genetic wiring ever intended.
Overall, the answer is to realize that rich, powerful, famous guys have the advantage at the beginning from their FAMILIARITY and ASSUMED, PROJECTED positive traits. But if you can learn to get a woman’s attention and then give her the FEELINGS that she’s always wanted, she’ll treat you like you’re famous, rich, and powerful as well.
A tall, handsome man, or a famous rich man ‘pushes a button’ and triggers certain feelings inside of a woman. If you’re not rich, famous, tall and/or super attractive, you have to learn to ‘install the button’ so that when they see you, then have those feelings. The good news is that you can do this with most women, whereas you cannot with most men.
While women are interested in looks to some degree, they are MORE interested in how you make them feel. Even if you don’t understand this, you have to believe it and start acting as though it’s true.
You must behave as if you confidently believe that you are the best thing for a woman, and that you are going to make her feel wonderful inside.
Women can pick up this particular belief, and they respond to it… [Continued in Chapter 1 of Double Your Dating ebook]
David DeAngelo’s Double Your Dating ebook comes with 3 bonus ebooks, a free Interviews With Dating Gurus starter kit with two double interviews and one free month of his Interviews With Dating Guru monthly series.