Earlier I made a post about the ebook Window Shopping For Women but I didn’t go into any real detail about it.
I preach that age is not a big deal but I think this is one time where being 32 years old might matter…
I don’t do FaceBook or MySpace. I’ve tried them and I don’t like them.
I don’t want to see your “pimped out page” with glittery text and slide shows with pictures of you and your friends making stupid faces all while your favorite emo song plays in the background. I don’t want to read your blog posts about how much your life rules or sucks. I just… don’t… care.
While I’m at it, I don’t want to be forced to have “Tom” as a “friend”. He looks like a complete tool and I do not want to be associate with him!
All kidding aside, I do realize that most people under the age of 25 use MySpace and FaceBook probably daily. I can see the need and benefits for a product about picking girls up using them.
So here’s part 1 of a 2 part interview that someone, who isn’t me, did with one of the authors. He will tell you the things you need to know about MySpace and FaceBook game that I cannot provide you because my MySpace game is “whack”…
Hey Race, Tell us a bit about how this all got started for you.
Well, we were just a couple of guys who inadvertently stumbled across this ridiculously effective system for meeting and dating women online using sites like MySpace and Facebook. Kelly actually originally discovered how effective it was while doing a promotions job online. In time he had such ridiculous stories I had to sit down with him to see what the hell he was doing to get the amazing results he was getting.
He sat me down, showed me how to ‘reformat’ my profile, write messages to practically ensure a response, and how to transition those interactions into dates. Within literally two weeks I had met about 40 women. Over the past year we have been consolidating all of our knowledge into a simple system that any guy can use to achieve the same results.
We really want guys to learn this stuff. It’s so powerful and it’s completely changed our lives.
Can you give me an example of a typical message interaction? Like how does it go down for you?
Well we usually just browse for the type of women we are looking for in our area and send out an opener that is out of the ordinary… something that catches their attention and in conjunction with our profile, sets us apart from all the other lame messages girls are receiving that day.
After they respond, we transition into role-playing, future projections, games, and other techniques to solidify the connection and build attraction. We like to keep it light and fun without showing too much interest. Here is an example of part of an interaction:
Subject: Caught you…
Date: Oct 24, 2007 11:46 AM
hey you are that one girl who tried to molest me at the club the other night…naughty naughty haha
Date: Oct 24, 2007 12:59 PM
oh really…hmm sorry bout that…it’s your fault for being cute
Date: Oct 24, 2007 4:34 PM
dang it! I knew I should have put on those glasses and a fake mustache..haha
so what’s your story mrs. mollester lady? you get extra points for creativity
Date: Oct 24, 2007 11:16 PM
creativity?! i am not creative that sucks! About me….my favorite subject…not!! I work a lot (like 7 days a week) and party almost as much…what about you Mr. Victim of my molesting?
Date: Oct 25, 2007 11:24 AM
me? little-ol-me…well let’s see. I ride dolphins, am developing a social psychology consulting business, get molested by cute girls at clubs and can bake 30 min brownies in 29 mins.
I can’t believe you are not creative…let’s try something to be sure. Would you rather:
Live in a mansion by the lake or a shack on the beach
Have to always say what’s on your mind or only speak pig latin
Have a year of amazing, toe curling sex and then a year of no sex or two years of so so sex
What would you say are the most important things people can do to get results online?
First and foremost you have to have your profile set up properly. Many times guys come to us for advice and are very frustrated that they aren’t getting any results. After a few very important tweaks to their profile they are amazed that girls they messaged before are now actually responding. In fact, this is such an important issue we dedicated over 30 minutes of our Online Game Mastery Video Training Series to the subject of Profile Design. You can learn more about it here.
How has learning this changed your interactions with women online and off line?
It really helps in every type of interaction we have women. Wether or not you are meeting women from MySpace/Facebook to ‘date’ them, adding women to your life is helpful no matter what the reason. It not only adds tons of social proof and social value, it also flips the tradition role of ‘dating’ on its head.
When a women makes the decision to meet up with you she is acknowledging to herself that she is attracted to you. That means when she meets up with you she is already hoping you are attracted to her. This is opposite of when you open a girl in public for the first time and she is aware of your initial attraction. She starts off attracted to you when you meet. This puts you at a distinct advantage.
Many guys have a huge fear of rejection or “approach anxiety” as they say in the community. When you approach a girl online that is completely taken away. As they get better at interacting with women, even if it is online, it gives them more confidence in person.
What advice would you give to people looking to expand the amount of women they can meet online?
Well after you set up your profile correctly and learn the proper way to interact with women online your options are almost limitless. There is seriously every type of girl imaginable online: models, promo girls, the girl next door, tattooed girls, hippie girls, your sister, etc. The best part is when you meet up with girls online they usually bring their friends so you double or triple the amount of girls in your life almost instantly. It truly is incredible!
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